this population Lives with beautiful wings inside each of you, sleep a delicate fairies from time to time. But there comes a time when you receive the man who if owns a remote butterflies. Presses the button and they went to frolic!
Yes, for some reason, other men nothing happens, but this is a dance of butterflies in my stomach. And there is already powerless any arguments: that it is bad, not like this, not yours. Did not want to listen to the mind, when turned on instinct.
But instinct, too, is selective. Somewhere on a subconscious level you are choosing that person, with a set of its specific qualities. Most often, butterflies Wake up immediately, even before the analysis of the future partner. They either react or do not react. The third is not given.
the question Arises, why, then, all theories about toxic men, daffodils and abuser? Correct behavior with them - if with others, right person, nothing jumps inside. And such a charming, charismatic, masculine psychopath then includes the desired button. When one of his appearance. Yes, the problem is...
Indeed, a grown woman sufficiently aware in their actions. She is able to take a sober and realistic look at the man - a potential partner relations. And it's not that often nobody to choose from. Maybe so - there are a few possible candidates, but ... boring in your heart. There is no desire to smarten up, to dress, to earn the love.
And this macho (although it may be outwardly, and not at all macho) stir something primordial, deep, can say, the animal in her. And the woman is ready to follow him to the ends of the world. Leaving the familiar: the house of the friends, interesting work. Well even if she and the tamer of butterflies will coincide.
And if not? Here though like cry, what kind of tricks don't do, no matter how applied effort - all in vain. It is useless to blame the man and ignore neglect. That he does not want to understand the lady and misbehaving. These arguments do not apply. Perhaps its the butterflies are not startled when meeting with this woman.
Very often it happens that a woman can't build a relationship with a partner due to internal conflict. All learned the rules of behavior in man fail. Physiologically or at the domestic level, the interaction is stopped. Here might work a factor in establishing yourself in the childhood of an ideal image men, and further entanglement in. To understand yourself and the cause mixed feelings, it is helpful to look into this issue with the psychologist.
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