"we Have a wedding in a week... we need the advice and guidance of a psychologist to family life"
With the unexpected request came to me a girl two weeks ago.
the Conversation was on the phone.
I was very surprised , because to us - professionals ( can be to someone and addressed similar queries ) -as a rule turn when a family has a crisis and the relationship at risk.
Began to clarify her information.
it Turned out that they know each other three months and was going to marry , filed in the registry office, waiting for the wedding party are preparing for it.
the Girl said that they have to Dating was relationships with others, and she lived parting with the young man, but her future husband, not yet "ended the relationship, his ex, calling him, and he responds, that is can not forget her"
Here is an unusual request - to give recommendations guidance for strong family life.
If I were to give recommendations , advice and guidance , then perhaps it would look like this.
Young wives
- Husband - is not ideal. He has his own dignity, because for them, you love him.
- the guiding principle - the husband is the head, woman is the neck. Encourage your husband to decisions.
- Show your weaknesses. Even if you can drive in the wall nail, it is better if it will make a man. The occasion for this reason needs to be all around.
- Extremely decorated with a woman's tact and delicacy. Remember fighting with my husband and call him with gentle words.
- Demonstrate an interest in the Affairs of her husband, let him in you he will find an interested audience.
- Often praise her husband, talking about its uniqueness.
Young men
- Know that the woman likes ears, so do her compliments.
- Surprise. An unexpected gift, a little surprise will bring your life a novelty.
- Take to wife sincere, caring attention
- do Not argue with the wife - it is useless, the best tactic agreement. You will avoid unnecessary quarrels and conflicts. However, you have the choice to do things his own way.
- If the woman turns back to you, praise this back and wife will be gentle and friendly.
But seriously, family life is strong and happy, requires many different skills , abilities, forces, energy and desires.
Understanding, ability to communicate , negotiate , hear , listen to each other, to find time together to spend it, to make concessions, to care about each other, etc.
Thank you!
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