to Begin with, that positive thinking and classical psychology are based on different notions of man and the causes of its problems.
Freud believed that people are much weaker and be a paraplegic than we think it is. His subjective perception of the person and its capabilities was laid in the Foundation of classical psychology. Man is weak, he can't cope with their emotions, thoughts, feelings, desires... Its fate depends on many different factors. To change yourself and life, it is necessary long and to work hard on yourself, analyze the past, starting with the prenatal period and better with past lives. . Psychotherapy a lifetime.
a Positive thinking built on a different vision and attitude, where man is the author of his life, where desires and thoughts create reality. And in this process people can control consciously controlling your thinking, choosing one or another interpretation of what is happening. For example, "all is well" or " goes bad". Also people can choose the ideas about yourself, about life, that it is right and what is not.
Assume that the person is weak and is not able without assistance to change themselves and their lives is also a choice.
"Positive thinking is a way of avoiding reality, their negative feelings, thoughts, and Fri. And so positive thinking can hurt"
This idea of positive thinking suggests that there is no understanding the essence of positive thinking. Man realistically assess what is happening, and he consciously chooses what it means for him, follow a script. Emotional responses do not remain without attention, but there is no need to hang on them and analyze them. Was passed. As kids, forgot, and live in the present.
just imagine that every thought, every spoken word creates your reality, your future. The here and now. You will be conscious to treat their words and thoughts? You choose positive or negative thinking?
Many people choose the negative, because unconsciously want things to be bad. And there is a reason. But now not about that.
Positive thinking is sometimes perceived as magic. Just yesterday I read the opinion of one of the psychologists in the social.network:
"Can I share a little about how dangerous is for our soul all sorts of practices to attract positive. Visualization, collages, dreams, laughing photos to improve health and increase the happiness of all is the deception of ourselves because we don't work to achieve improvements in life, and magic tricks. Magic works, always. But it will always take something in return. True happiness is not in the exception difficulties, and that we are so strong in spirit that can overcome any difficulties and increase in the quantity of awareness, love, kindness, joy - then we become happy without any tricks and techniques. For me true that I will not put their own internal efforts, profound study itself, to change the character for forgiveness of their abusers, the acceptance of all the injustices and painful lessons for love's sake, for your soul - happiness is not complete, true"
How destructive attitudes found in this text?)
Happiness in overcoming difficulties. Here and now it is not available. For all the good changes you have to pay. Of course, psychotherapists. If changes are not earned through hard work on myself - somebody (magic, fate) take something in return.
And most importantly - practice "bringing positive" have nothing to do with positive thinking. And, Yes, they really work. And it's not magic, and NLP.
the One who is practicing positive thinking, knows how much work this is. To be constantly aware, constantly alert, constantly remember that here and now, I create reality. This work is to monitor and change destructive and limiting beliefs. It is not meant to lie on the couch and visualize as many people think. Positive thinking stimulates man to action, in contrast to negative thinking, which deprives of strength, energy, confidence, transforming human "sacrifice" circumstances.
the Main message of all the teachers of positive thinking - only by controlling their thoughts, feelings, your unconscious, you can manage your life, to be her master and to realize any goal and dream.
Every day, be on your guard at the door of his mind. You alone decide what thoughts and beliefs you let into your life because they will determine if you feel rich or poor, cursed or blessed.
Jim Rohn
And finally, a few questions.
what kind of people do you like to communicate? Positive, in which everything is easy and simple? Or negative, in which things are bad and difficult?
what do you think, who of them are lucky?)
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