Injury. As they were in my practice. How are they different, how it affects my work and client behavior.
Trauma is an event so powerful in its emotional intensity, that a person forces this event to live. Or is it such a burden on the nervous system that at the end of the load the consequences until the disease or the strongest feelings of fatigue at any age.
All of these experiences occur up to 5 years. At the same time and create scripts that respond to a particular event in a person's life. Formed his behavioral responses. Further there is usually a confirmation of the initial experience. The mind looks for confirmation, not a refutation. Usually this manifests itself in the search for evidence of infidelity, betrayal, deceit and so on. Even where objectively there is evidence to the contrary, but they just are not registered. Because the primary experience does not coincide with them.
And the most powerful psyche of traumatic events are events not negative, but positive. When a person is forced to restrain the manifestation of their joy, and any other positive emotions. The energy of joy is the flow of energy. And to keep this influx is not showing, an order of magnitude more difficult and expensive than the outflow. And tension in the mind is stronger and the manifestation of injury is brighter and more destructive.
the same injury comprehensive form style of behavior - the victim, aggressor, Savior.
And the victim – this self-destruction and at the same time the pride of their sacrifice. A person carries it like a banner, as a symbol of his feat. His sacrifice is his status, his pedestal.
the Aggressor in the first place against himself and then have to others. That is, in this state, he is like a vacuum behind the wall that will not allow using neither to him nor him to us. And in fact aggression is the manifestation of terror, fear, panic, hysteria this inmate created prison.
the Savior is another side to the coin of sacrifice. The only other sign, but the meaning is the same. I'll save those in his image and likeness. Or you will die.
all of which creates a child up to 5 years.
have to work with the inner child, and for adults waking it up to control both the child and parent. Giving the inner child a different experience of the traumatic event. Tracking the whole chain of events retraumatizing to date, work with the client, and removing the voltage, changing the attitude to the event. Making it easier in an emotional accommodation. Past it is impossible to change, but it is possible to change the attitude.
And prompting the adult to monitor manifestations of behaviors shaped by injuries as usual and natural. And building a different line of conduct, based on an informed, the first time is hard, slow analysis of the situation and his reaction to it. It's like training a new skill. This is how to relearn with door opening left hand constantly on the right. Or alternately, depending on the situation.
a Different line of conduct can be formed in the same event as complex reactions. If the event is a junction station, and reactions as a way to train the manifestation of their variance.
the need to monitor the changes of behaviors after school are mandatory. Speaking with the client. What has changed, what is the reaction of others. What thoughts are causing it all. Like that, no.
Quite often, the correction of behavioral responses leads to a different injury which was the basis of developed. Like a Russian doll. And quit his job in such cases is contraindicated. At the termination of the correction the client has the understanding of what is happening, there are clear consequences, but no strength either to stop or to adjust exposure to the outside world on him. He sees what is not there, sees the hole. And is no longer with eyes closed and open. Although sometimes it is a powerful incentive for correction. But hard enough in terms of corrective action. It is necessary to gain resources for rehabilitation from the effects of these new, already visible to the human events. In any case, this work takes quite a long time. The first stage is the removal of emotional stress, perceived accommodation. The second stage is the forming of a new line of behavioral reactions, and maintaining them. At this stage, intervention is not required in such volume and such frequency. One just needs to check conditions and symptoms previously possible hidden injuries. The manifestation of these traumas, work is already familiar and more easily accepted by the person. The brain already knows the mechanism, less resistance. The main burden in the second stage incumbent on him to seek help. The officer shall only support and rare intervention. The third stage was the most positive is the phase of reception and absorption of the fruit from the new reaction and evaluation of events. Just more freedom and positive result. With heat.
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