You are using. And you admit it.
One of my friend needed the garage. And to save on workers, they were invited to help his friend, not to refuse. All summer, the man wore the blocks and churned the solution. The garage was built perfectly. Do you think that fellow had the garage? That's right - no.
Because we were all new and new foreign projects in which he was forced to help.
Manner seek to please everyone around usually produced in humans in childhood.
Very often it appears in children whose parents suffered from alcoholism, drug addiction or other addiction.
Such people also grow up in families with overly domineering parents who raised their children in the repression. Child "kick" with or without, that causes him to constantly live on edge, fearing a careless action or word to displease mom and/or dad. This behavior, incidentally, is more characteristic of divorced women raising a child alone. Especially those who are raising sons.
as a result people are not able to refuse, even when he imposed obviously unfavorable circumstances.
You don't even always immediately able to understand what you are!
you May even be happy to live in constant approval of their actions from others? But in the end you decide the interests of outsiders, not their own!
Propose to cease to be a treasure for manipulation and use.
you need:
- Remember all of his life and understand what made you so
- Next learn how to clearly understand what you want
- And strictly follow their desires (to sacrifice them only if they seriously violate the interests of others)
If you need the assistance of a psychologist. Write in direct!
what kind of manipulation you've seen? Do you say "no" when you have to go the other way?
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