1. Deter feelings
If you always keep your feelings and can't talk to your partner sincerely and "heart to heart", knowing that you can condemn and not to understand, sooner or later it will significantly worsen your relationship. So don't keep it to yourself, don't hide your feelings and emotions nor in the discussion of some problem or, for example, during sex, but try to be tactful and not to offend the feelings of a loved one.
2. Lack of sexual harmony
If you and your partner are unable to fully open and relax with each other during sex, then over time it will definitely be a problem for you. Learn to enjoy your intimacy to share with each other their innermost fantaziyami and desires, and for this the first thing you need to do is to trust your loved one and then your relationship will be nothing to threaten.
3. Acceptance each other for granted
do Not think that if you love each other, now you can relax, because it will always be. The relationship harmonious development they need work and it is advisable to do both partners and not just one person.
4. The inconsistency in behavior
If you or your partner like to play the game "warm-cold" or "near-far", do not be surprised that over time it will worsen your relationship and eventually alienate you from each other. So you do not need every day to behave differently - today you all are good, warm to treat a partner, and tomorrow is cold and begins to move away, explaining that all those "not to relax". Be careful, it can play a cruel joke with you.
5. The lack of Dating and romance
If you are with a loved one constantly just sit at home and never go, and on romantic walks and dates already forgotten long ago - it may have a negative impact on your relationship. So often arrange a date, give each other cute gifts, take a trip somewhere to relax just the two of us, one word will continue your "honeymoon" period.
6. Permanent teaching each other
Stop telling each other what and how to do it. Seriously, stop it! It is better to learn to support and instill more confidence in your loved one and not drive it into the complexes, or even what "good" is depression your constant nagging and lectures.
7. The lack of real trust between you
Trust is the Foundation of any relationship, especially relationships between people in love. So if you can't or don't want to completely trust your partner, then sooner or later such relations will simply collapse.
8. Selfishness in bed
it is Very important be able and willing not only to get pleasure from your sexual relations, but genuinely try to give the same pleasure to your partner.
9. Hiding your relationship from others
If you hide your relationship and about them, none of your relatives and friends did not even realize, it can have a negative impact on them. Indeed, over time one of the partners begins to doubt the sincerity and authenticity of feelings of the other, so why would it hide? So, as you know, if you continue to hide your relationship on, then nothing good is not over.
10. Constant resentment and silence
If your conflict has been resolved, apologies offered and accepted and all was well again, no one needs to continue to be offended and remember that your partner another many times . But hush your lunch is not worth it. It is always right and just say that you are so hurt and insulted. Then the situation will be easier to solve and understand - so to speak "is still on hot pursuit." Otherwise the resentment that you will be a consistently accumulate sooner or later "will break your dam of patience," and then you run the risk of taking it out on a loved one simply through something stupid.
11. Different goals and plans for the future
If you have a partner quite a different view of your future and every one of you to build your own plans and pursue only their own objectives, then the future of your relationship is questionable. So don't forget to have not only your own plans, dreams and ambitions, but also your General, that will give you the chance to your happy future with a loved one.
12. Constant complaints
If you're always cranky and always complaining, yet you do not like, do not be surprised if one day, your partner just run away from you, even though how much he can love you. After living with a man who's always in a bad mood and all he is guilty is incredibly difficult. So if you want to save your relationship and start to feel better, the first thing to take responsibility for their condition and life in General itself, and then you'll see that the only person who can make you truly happy is yourself.
Love and understanding to you!
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