you were the head of a despot?
the Wolf was furious. His roar was heard on the first floor. The staff hid in their burrows with the sound off phones. The wolf was shaking and dripping saliva trickle between clanking teeth.
little Red riding Hood was silently backed away to the door, but realized that there is no chance. Wolf yelled, not very distinctly pronouncing swear words and was trembling. The muscles under the hair rolled about the hill. Cap fell into a stupor and in slow motion watched the paws, which were all dropped from the Desk, leeellen tore the paper and threw it.
"It is now Kondraty enough..." there was a thought in an empty head. The idea, and her understanding that he needs help, he'll die. The need to help this ugly screaming creature brought Cap to life. Himself no, he - yeah!
- Oh, how noble! - Sobbed again clogged heart and a scratched ego.
Caps got out of the bag your daily intake of water, and looking into the bulging eyes slowly handed Wolf said: "Drink you pressure. So you can not". He drank heavily and sank into a chair. Cap handed swipe. The wolf didn't react. Just quietly hissed. "Speaks hoarsely, is to be" decided Cap and quietly slipped out of the boss's office.
She walked through the deserted office and thought how to hate everyone around to do this with you. It all started in the morning when the contractor who won the tender, put them on notice that reviewing the requirements specification has to include in the price some more work. That had blatantly violated the terms of the agreement.
the Wolf was sitting in a chair and thinking how much he hates them, fools and morons who can't work and pick up people. What a sensible and professional specialists in the afternoon with fire not to find, and everyone is trying to grab more and do less. And now how to resolve this situation, if the budget is limited and the deadline set And at the top...no one will enter the position. Just destroy it, so much effort and years, built reputation.... And so it became sad, tosklivoe... to howl wanted. Something familiar flashed in this sense, it suddenly became three-dimensional and there was a smell.
the Smell of fear and urine, as when dad first pulled the fangs of his leg and the Cub could not resist. What he did or did not do, he could not remember. Remember, fear....Hand habitually reached for the bar.
Cap went home in my head already lined up a plan to resolve the situation with the contractor. The shock is gradually released. And if it all happens, villipuram to be, no matter what! Be it the clean water in the Lake and salmon in there they will start!...🍾
Have you had the head of a despot?
These people prefer to achieve obedience by shouting or humiliation. And even realizing that it's not he cries, and his previous injury, it is still difficult to be in this field.
Some rules for such cases:
1) When the opponent starts to yell, the brain has 2-3 seconds before answer. Focus at this time on the teeth screaming. Does he need a filling how long he has removed the stones, and the color-what color-what... So the brain will get a reprieve and you will be able to control their emotions. (Ears not too bad: large? Moving? 🐵)
2) it is Useless to respond with a scream or something to argue. He is not interested. Sympathy. Don't bully, and be sympathetic and nedoumevala. "Yes, it's terrible!", "I see that you're angry."
3) Your boundaries: "I feel annoyed when you yell at me, even if I made a mistake. For me there is no greater critic than myself!"
4) to Recognize his right to be angry and go to the construct: "I was also angry, and I angry as you are. But the output sure is."
And remember, he yells at you. It the inside, never mind, don't you cry...You propose to take, and you don't take. Why do you need extra?💐
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