Тепло и свет в психотерапии

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the use of the terms "light" and "heat" regarding the associative psychotherapy may be born positive emotional response. Oddly enough, these metaphors I see as antonyms and not synonyms in the understanding of deep meanings. Many customers use them to Express their needs. The process of attention is often compared to the beam of light highlighting an object of this attention. Communication, mood or atmosphere to appreciate the metaphors of temperature.

Where we get our first heat? In the mother's womb. In fact, there is no cold, so the constancy of body temperature is taken as a given. No need of analysis of the external environment, even the external environment is not. My mom is a single organism, especially if the pregnancy is going well. It is warm. It envelops, but no pressure. It's nice, but doesn't draw attention to yourself. It all just is, as a given, as something not worth noticing and that is the only rule.

Embrace only a distant physical equivalent of primary heat. It doralina the stage where the mother's love and sensitivity to yourself ensures your unborn person.

something similar can be said about the warmth in the relationship..even the frozen people if you trust, can quickly warm up and switch to co-existence (events). It happens exactly as long as growth does not lead to unpleasant changes: the warmth becomes heat, pressure boundaries, limiting freedom. Now in this warm, crowded, you need new space, but where is it? Because my world is a womb, the other I don't know.

the Response will tell the world. Going into the light, I leave the limited world of the dark tunnel, Platonov cave. Yes, before there was good, but now I'm too big and to me there now too hot there I'm afraid to burn. Now I want to be born and see the light. The light attracts my attention, and I can't do anything else to see except the blinding light. Yes there I can see..now you have me, all I am separated. And it's scary. Light floods me and I'm in the habit of starting to regret that left security. I now at least something vaguely-resembling a womb..Yes, Yes... at least embrace, warm, familiar voice, and finally, the fulfillment of my desires. Maybe I made the right choice, that he was born.

Warm people is a womb, this kapitanie resources and sensitivity is a hundred percent response, it is the native environment, which will sooner or later become too tight. This women's pull-in environment. Burn specialists who play the perfect mom, and moms burn out if lacking in light of the new world.

the Light gives hope, it is always a symbol of invincible strength and dichotomously necessary in opposition to darkness, which is cozy and intoxicating. Light scares new challenges and attracts the most desperate ones even if they cost lives. The light is a challenge, it is a confident power, men's movement from the outside. It is the impetus to the development, birth, which is always scary and painful: for the new, we leave the old.

Light dispersed the evil spirits, seeking to take control over us, to weaken us by putting in too hard and consuming. The light we draw attention to the dark and frightening corners of the souls of those clients who dither from its birth and is tied to the mother, which is still part of them.

Warm we will be closed from the unbearable world, unbearable, yet for us, small, test. Warm we warm, motherly to those who are too far left secure borders, just learning to walk who are too weak and frightened who are crushed, killed, and hopes for a rebirth. Hardest those who are themselves forbidden to die.

in addition to clearly dichotomous analogy between the male and female type of love, it is also possible to recall the pleasure principle, which is considered as primordial in human development and is associated with satisfaction from the mother, and the reality principle, which allows us to adapt in society, to accept its boundaries and is associated with the male role in the opening of the new and farewell the old.

how can we stay too long in the warmth, refusing the light of new or constantly followed the light, ignoring the need for security and peace? The answer is obvious.

We need both heat and light. All of us: people, animals, plants, even bacteria. Our vision of an imbalance of light/darkness or appropriateness in a particular period of life can give us the necessary comfort, without which we can neither move forward nor stand still.

Alexander

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