Техника "Я строю отношения"

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This technique, I was born in one consultation. To me a woman came in after 4 divorce, already well aware that it and it and the need to change something. Now this woman in the most long-term relationships in her life. In a relationship where she was able to stop disrupting and start building. ⠀
the secret technology? It's simple. The attention of many women in the destruction, so: ⠀
— married over time, doubt me whether it is male ⠀
— periodically a bad Director and it turns out it's "not quite mine"⠀
— the people around sometimes evil ⠀
— relatives do not understand me and do not like in life I was not lucky ⠀
— I sometimes hate and blame. ⠀
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the Psyche of a healthy person is Constantly building. Builds relationships, builds love, builds tenderness, builds strong bonds in the house, in your business, work. These bonds are built because the human condition is stable, so every day in every area is built brick by brick. Therefore, these people are more rich, money and opportunities ⠀
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Why do people with an unhealthy psyche can't build? ⠀
— suppressed feelings and suppressed desires as an alarm clock remind myself and worrying. People understand that need to escape, to give myself, to live and to live in peace, but some continue to do what you don't want and continue to suppress their feelings. So start to live the feelings, to open and GRADUALLY to desire something that they genuinely want. ⠀
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Build relationships - it's about what you start to stabilize its internal state. ⠀
I gave your client a simple exercise that she was doing the 21 days and during which I began to build up, not destroy, share and exercise with you:

Each time, coming into conflict, I asked her to talk about myself: "I want this man now to build, not destroy. I truly want to understand and build"
In the course of this internal decision, you will calm down. Start to breathe deeper. I asked her to imagine how she is fully open before a person.

only 2 simple steps: