Who can use: practicing psychologists
every day we experience different feelings and emotions. This can be both positive and negative (negative) emotions. Of course, very pleased it is a positive emotion, but negative emotions in our lives, unfortunately, are present and from them we can't insure, can't stop myself not to feel anger, irritation, anger, or resentment, for example. But we can learn to analyze and manage your negative emotions.
the Deck to work, "Emotions of destiny", "Lonely", "I and YOU", "Personal boundaries", "Lessons of the soul."
year:
- From the deck of "Emotions destiny" That I feel now? /closed. Open to discuss.
- From the deck of "Personal boundaries" That I want to change? /closed. Open to discuss.
- From the deck of "Personal boundaries" That I need to do to make me feel better? /closed. Open to discuss.
- From the deck "me and YOU" /Whose problem is it really? /closed. Open to discuss.
- From the deck of "Loneliness" (cards with a %) /how is that my problem? /closed. Open to discuss.
- From the deck "Lessons of the soul" /what is the hidden meaning for me? /closed. Open to discuss.
(Client example published be strictly with the consent of the client.)
Client request:
a Woman 36 years old, married. Works as a helper around the house with friends. When she was financially very difficult, they offered her to earn, so they have it working already for 9 years. Now it has long not treated as a friend, only as a helper around the house. The hostess (a friend) often says, pointing to the fact who she should be obliged for their present comfortable life. The client wants to leave the job, but a sense of duty and guilt keeps her to do it. She thinks that if she reported wanting to quit, then betray them like this. They live with my son 8 years old also in the house of a friend. Private housing is (1-room apartment in another city, which is now for rent).
Example equipment:
- From the deck of "Emotions destiny" That I feel now? /closed. Open to discuss.
Client: guilt, anger, resentment, feel obligated to your friend. Although, her friend I have a long time not feel. I guess I serviced staff only.
Client: I want to stop doing this to mock him. I want to quit because I'm tired of my friend and his superiority was talking to me. Although from the beginning it was not so. This is similar to self-destruct. By profession I am a beautician. Want to obtain a license for the job, get in a salon or beauty clinic and work there.
Client: My. I feel sorry for myself. I tired to care about strangers. It's time to take care of yourself.
Client: 90% - true.
Client: I have long ceased to be herself. I am now dancing to the tune of others, and want their. The point is that actually, in this house, I feel very comfortable and cozy. I'm used to good wages, good conditions, son goes to the same school as my friend's son – hostess. So, there would not.
Client: I Think I need to look at this situation from the other side. I really profitable right now to live, and the pay is good. My son 2 times a year I go to sea. This school has good prospects. If we move down, school will be different. Also, I recently I met a man who lives nearby. If we go home, we can't see each other as often and would love. We seem to be both in love. Not to hear reproaches, you can try with a friend to talk to without these negative emotions, a heart. We do sometimes speak.
the Psychologist: Negative emotions are our teachers and a kind of traffic signs. It is possible to understand that we are going the wrong way or go too fast. Maybe the client really needs to stop now, not "run" under the pressure of their negative emotions and try to look at this situation. In fact she is talking about the fact that the advantages that she now lives as more than the minuses. Moreover, she has the opportunity to talk with the landlady that she doesn't like and try to change it.
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