Equipment MAC - cards "the Male figure in a woman's life", for women with difficulties in relationships with men.
Orientation technology: the awareness and development of the experiences of women survivors of breach/crisis in the parental home (trauma, parental divorce, loss).
Deck Mak - cards: a Person or a Man with an artist's eye, Sora, Love the eyes of the artist.
explanation: equipment created for specific client and his situation,and a description of the request, but as a template it can be used with many people experiencing difficulties in relationships with the opposite sex and ambiguous relationship with their own parents, in the period of separation from parents or experiencing normative age crises. Some maps and they can be completely removed, for example, the fifth and sixth, second and fourth, you can replace, all based on the logic problems of the client.
a deck of cards, you can also use the same, any portrait and versatile. I take my favorite deck,which I really respond. Here to make a few cards collected in several pieces on the sheet, from the proposed decks. Reading the questions, you can choose from these cards will not necessarily have them in front of the entire pack, it's just an example of the technique,even though the example is incomplete decks,it can be something to work on (mother Projection,eh)!
Restrictions: if you are performing a technique,you will feel bad, ostanovitess, so, yet. Despite the softness and environmental friendliness of the Mac-tech, this exercise is best done together with the psychologist,to lean on and get support and help if things get too unbearable. pay attention to yourself and You harmony with itself and the world!
Variations: you can transform the client - man or pereproshivka relations "mother-daughter", "mother - son" by changing, respectively, the required sex and logic, the words of questions / comments.
instruction:
Let's imagine that you are browsing old photo album. There are pictures of men, about which you know something or know nothing. Which you good or bad remember,or not remember at all. Someone near you says these cards,he knows the images on these people. But you think that you know a little something about them.
Looking at the map,describe your thoughts, emotions, and body sensations about the image on the map according to the commentary.
If you really hard and nothing comes to mind, just describe what you see in the picture.
so, first card. It's your father. Select the appropriate card from the deck Person (or from the deck "Man, the eyes of an artist"). What you think and feel,looking at the map? How do you feel? What kind of a person?
Second card. This is your grandfather.
Select the appropriate card from the deck Person, put it next to.What you think and feel,looking at the map? How do you feel? Is that person on the map?
Third map. Deck The COP. Choose a card, face down,( I'll post a map chosen by the client). Open the map, put it under the first card.
Here you are with the father. Describe the situation, your attitudes, feelings,words, sensations in the body.
my Fourth card. Deck The COP. Choose a card, face down, also put a card of your choice. Open the map, put it under the second card.
Here you are with grandpa. Describe the situation,your attitudes,feelings,words, sensations in the body.
Fifth card. Are you in childhood. Select the appropriate card from the deck of Persona/you can take Personita or a Woman the eyes of an artist, but this is not so important. Put the card third row down. What a man,what child is this?
goddess. This is also you, but just a little different. It's a girl,which is very like her father and grandfather, with whom they would like to stay, play, talk. Select the appropriate card from the deck Person,put it to the right of the alignment. Examples of maps presented above.
What is this girl,describe her? What she does,thinks,feels?
Seventh card. This is your man (someone of your experience). Select the appropriate card from the deck the Person is/the Man with the eyes of an artist, put it on top of a sixth card.
Who is this man on the map, what he is? What qualities does he have? What qualities do I not notice?
the Eighth card. Here you along with your man. Select the appropriate card from the deck "love through the eyes of an artist"/Sora put her under the sixth map.
Describe the situation and your relationship.
What are you in this relationship,what you do and feel in the picture?
What is he in this relationship?
you don't want to do? What you don't like in this relationship?
What do you like in this relationship,depicted in the picture?
the Ninth card. Are you talking with your man heart to heart and casually to learn what he would like to see you so genuinely cares about you, talk to you, admire you.
Select the appropriate card from the deck "love through the eyes of an artist", put it right of the alignment. What kind of woman he describes? What does he expect from her? What bothers him in it,and what draws?
Tenth card. It is your recent photo. Select the appropriate card from the deck "love through the eyes of an artist" or "Person", put it right of the ninth card.
What is the woman really on the map now?
eleventh card. What should be the girl depicted in the previous tenth card to her favorite man was able to love her and care about her, be with her and work together to build a family and relationships?
Select the appropriate card from the deck "love through the eyes of an artist" or "Person" put it under the tenth card.
Describe the map. What to do to become like this, think of and write down three actions. br> In how long do you execute them? Indicate the term and try to do it.
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Instead of prescribing the steps you can offer action cards,which spelled out action and motivating messages.
Based on the state of the client ,you can invite him to choose a resource card from any positive,good deck, to successfully complete the process. for Example,such.....
And resource,a soothing message (the Blessing of the kind), for example, this...
And a pretty good picture to bring a smile.....this:
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