Quite often receives such requests from clients who without realizing it, we live in a painful co-dependent relationship.
They really want to keep this your family, they are very a lot of energy doing that.
many times dancing on the rake, I think that is what their action can do and the man will cease to change and everything will be like in their dreams.
of course ,sometimes, people make mistakes, and maybe , if the man stumbled once, then never again. He concluded that she, too, changed their behavior, and the couple together on building a relationship in which both comfortably and expectations and claims are met adequately.
And what do you do if a man changes regularly?
changes and repents, it won't be every time you have it on this "catch."
or
the General says you that.
men creatures polygamies izmenyayut my fault this person
and so on....and so on
and to you it hurts !! and you're not out of resentment, suspicion, pain, painful memories , BUT to lose it not want?! Or afraid of something.
how to make he loved you and never cheated? You want this man?
answer:
TA da da dam......:
NO
why? Because:
1. You chose the wrong man, if you think the loyalty you value. He is. He shows this by his actions and he this is really good. And you seem to be offended and suffer, and quarrel, BUT deeds remain with him like this. That is take. And I think that is not accepted as sure you will be able to save him from this and alter to your own invented ideal. Don't lie to yourself. He is. Yes, he really is.
2. You itself such that he or another if you try to change a man will change . It so happened(and the reason, of course in my childhood and shaped your life script) that you do not know how to love yourself, value yourself, do not know themselves, allow themselves so terribly afraid of being alone. And all this in your behavior practically "forced" the man in the marriage to change, or to drink , or something else . And if you do not change ,you have no chance of a happy harmonious relationship of love. (More if I struck a chord, in the book by Robin Norwood "Women who love too much")
WHAT to do?
2. Take man as he is and agree with him to live in the present consciously, or deliberately to let him go.
3. If, however, cheating is unbearable to live with an out of tune and handle yourself not to
contact for help and grow yourself to New you are able to build a real a happy relationship in love and harmony without lying to myself and without cheating, but with mutual support and love.
If you have any difficulties in the relationship, contact and study their important moments on the path to happiness and harmony.
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