the Generic program - a set of attitudes, beliefs, behaviour that is passed from generation to generation. For example, from grandmother to mother and then to her granddaughter.⠀
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There are generic programs that help us in life and are a resource. And there are those that hinder. ⠀
Today I want to touch on generic programmes involving partnerships
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With the clients we have worked for the following programs that interfere with the relationship:
- All men are BAST; ⠀
- Such as it is, I man not interesting, I always have to pretend/to look better/be perfect; ⠀
- Men not to be trusted; ⠀
- I myself/you need to be independent; ⠀
- it is Better not to fall in love, otherwise it will hurt; ⠀
- Asking for help is humiliating.
the Man should solve all my problems. ⠀
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As you receive the generic program?
for Example, a client's grandmother in her youth had been deceived and abandoned fiancé. To cope with the pain of betrayal and to protect themselves from similar situations in the future, she formed the belief "Men cannot be trusted." Here can be the installation of "All men are BAST" and "it is Better not to fall in love, otherwise it will be painful." After a while she married another man, but life didn't trust him and was quite cold and restrained in expression of feelings. She gave birth to a daughter – the mother of the client and handed her my program for men. Mom secured the program on his experience, also disappointed in the men, and gave it to his daughter. And now the client is a carrier of this generic program. ⠀
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Questions that will help you understand what may, I act and live under the influence of generic program:
- was there in my life a similar situation? If so, what feelings I experienced then? ⠀
do I have the feeling that I'm not in his place, living someone else's life? ⠀
- Assists the program/belief in life or hinder? ⠀
I operate consciously or I have a feeling that I can't control everything as in a fog, something on me is affected?
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Modern methods of psychotherapy allow you to effectively identify, disconnect, and find other successful programs in the family. And our determination and willingness to change your life for the better.
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