a Situation when in a strong pairs one of the partners starts to think about change – not such a rarity. Whence arise these thoughts, if in a relationship and everything is stable and well? If they can serve as an indicator of some change in the relationship? Or perhaps they say something about the man? br>
"I married for six years, and during that time my husband and I have not had any major conflicts or serious disagreements. From our family life – idyll, – says Anna. But more and more I get the idea that there is a man I would have been happier, and my life could be more bright and dynamic. At the same time, I have nothing bad to say about my family life, my husband is a good man, which I cherish tender feelings. But seditious thoughts that somewhere the "grass is greener", from time to time disturb me." br>
the Modern world with its variety of choice and easy accessibility of anything, as if subconsciously dictates: we deserve the best, any dissatisfaction of our needs jeopardizes our happiness. Press, social media, advertising – all that imposes on us the same paradigm: one life, and we need to get away from it all best; there are people who already know how to live. Unfortunately, very often this worldview applies to personal relationships between people. br>
usually, such thoughts that come to Anna, the more prone people are insecure, anxious, doubting. It is easier to succumb to the beautiful picture and even refuse for her from something real that they already have. "I am constantly confronted with the same situation, – says Kirill. – Build a relationship with a girl, at first everything is fine, just perfect. But then fler scatters. My companion finds in himself some faults, which I at first did not notice or did not want to miss. And now she is not as charming as the first, and the relationship becomes mundane, you lose again. And there are so many other wonderful women, relationships that promise more than I have now. I plunge into a new adventure, but then it repeats again. At the same time want it ended, and I finally managed to start a relationship in which I would be happy." br>
Thoughts on infidelity and change the partner often overpower those people who shift the responsibility for happiness on a soul mate. If the partner for any reason ceased to be a source of happiness, thoughts about how and whether at all to continue this relationship? This setup often leads to an impasse. Each time, being dependent on someone else, people will be disappointed. Only those who are able to take responsibility for their happiness on themselves, able to build healthy relationships. br>
Thus, faithfulness in the pair becomes the property of the people, who themselves can be happy and fill this happiness of the other. Given to those who can take responsibility in choosing a partner, and then to build a relationship with him.
Such people harbour fewer illusions that someday they'll meet Prince charming or Princess who can transform their lives. It is often similar to illusion have a devastating impact on a relationship as a couple. Only by accepting the partner as he is, from the outset, you can protect yourself from disappointment, and to build a happy, trusting relationship. br>
doubts about the faithfulness of your partner, experiencing Anna and Kirill, can be characterized in varying degrees to almost everyone. However, these thoughts are not an indicator of the wormhole in the man or his partner. They are likely the bell that we once again seek to escape into a world of illusions instead of take responsibility and to understand the situation.
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