I am extremely surprised that a girl reach thirty years, and someone forty years of age, consider addressing them with the word woman, almost the most powerful insult. Not when I couldn't understand what's wrong with that? After all, to be a woman that's fine)
most Often this situation is caused by the fact that these "girls" do not want to admit their age, are in some illusory rather infantile position. A fairly common situation, when the failure of his age, is dissatisfaction with their lives and the real situation at the current moment. A man (among men, this situation is also not rare by the way), lives with the memories of days long gone by, most often a school or College, when it was fun, relaxed and there was no responsibility. After all, to tell myself that I'm now adult the woman is a serious step, which means that I am now responsible for his own life, for the way I live, for what we have achieved/have not achieved, and sometimes to do this, alas, is not easy.
Much easier to deny it and be in illusion, what is still to come, and Yes it is definitely ahead, but it is necessary to first admit the fact of the real situation, to see their lives adequately, to understand where and what you are going to make the appropriate adjustments and to build a correct motion vector.
it is Clear that sometimes it is really scary to open your eyes, but it is a road to nowhere, only more time is spent in empty, but once I have yet to open them, to see what you have achieved or missed in my life and generally what to do. Then it will be ahead, and if not only ever to deny reality.
So I urge you to adequately assess yourself and your age, not hide from responsibility, calling himself an eternal girl/young boy. And Yes, when you sometimes in speech using, for example , we went to the girls there, then there is nothing wrong with that, but if the treatment with the word the woman takes you out of yourself and you can't apply to itself the designation and the number of years the passport carefully stepped over the second decade, there is clearly something worth considering, and what is the fear behind this is that you are afraid to admit and what they regard as irretrievably lost in my life?
Learn to accept yourself:)
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