a Marker of the emergence of needs is the growing excitement (arousal is energy). br>
develop feelings — it means that we are involved in a real situation. Don't feel — so fell out of reality. Your "ya" has blurred. But success comes only in contact with reality.
There are excitement - You are in reality, no excitement - You "dropped out".
In fact, the "I" is contacts (interactions) at any given time. And how "I" respond to external challenges in every situation, we grow, finding and creating meaning. br>
What mental health and mental disorder? br>
it's All about identify with your "I" and the alienation of the "I". Mentally healthy one who does not hold back his excitement (energy), and disposes what it does not fit organically. Mental disorder occurs when the suppression of his spontaneity.
For the identification and exclusion meets the "Ego". Here "Ego", it is desirable to train.
But!!!!! Attention!!!! With all that said above, it is vital to comply with the laws of the system. Each of us enters the system (community, family, collective). There is an Eternal and a temporal. Run, jump, play is a good thing to 14, further dominate: to explore, to work, to serve. And here it is necessary to understand all the time. Whoever violates the law will hurt later. Generally, any pain is a marker of violations of the laws of systems. What's right - given to us at birth. This is communicated unconsciously and "sweeps" through all generations. There are things that are inevitable. It's the roles that we have undertaken, and it is inevitable. Father/mother, brother/sister, husband/wife, son/daughter, first baby/second/third..., the employee previously entered into the system / employee later incorporated into the system. It's always about maturity personality about the Outlook of an adult. If you find a grief and tears, — means no detection and awareness in the difference between eternal and temporary. Examples: I came into a relationship without completing those that are (love triangles), in adolescence have not been meeting and parting, a storm of emotions and passions, was discovered in 30,40,50 years later. You can not ask? Yes, you can! Only will have to pay. Fee pain. What will help? A Frank conversation. Want - directly with the person you want - with a psychologist. It is important "to himself in his own hands." And this is possible only through the other, through feedback from the other. Feedback has its own rules. We need to understand what "the return" will be painful, and what is healing. And act not from pain, but from love.
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Healthy life spontaneity to You, in compliance with the laws.
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