the forum I came across a topic where they discussed the impasse online Dating. I was expecting to see something like - many photos of other people, not everyone wants real Dating, etc. and saw the banal claim to the men, broken record
"But before men met on the street, but not now."
do not understand an essence of claims, incomprehensible generalization, as I personally know over 10 couples who after meeting on the website and started a family and children, and most importantly, in fact, it is a protest against the new time. Yes, the new time dictates its own terms. Less time on foreplay, the less time for reflection - action is more important. It is a fact of life. The social contract contributed to the fact that people broadcast the images. False, but it helps that most around are doing the same thing.
People are willing to buy into the false image given by him, and acquire him as the clothes on sale. Everyone can try her new mask an unlimited number of times. Social networks are not only largely simplified the Dating process, they have allowed many to live parallel lives.The insecure person often transmits the image of the brand strong, dominant, even arrogant individual. The most unhappy man is the image of the happy. The depressed image of fun.
Each of the psychologists on this site who have practice confirm. A client comes, absolutely broken, and his instagram - a real spectacle and a Paradise. His right, in a sense, self-protection, hiding who you really are. you HAVE to look a certain way but not for THEMSELVES. Don't show yourself weak, do not dare to disclose the vulnerability, don't you dare ask for help. The result is obvious. Everything goes into the shadows. Pain, fears, anxiety. They form a thick and sticky concoction. Instead of izbivaniya the pregnany. INSIDE,
as a result, people feel more insecure, wounded, unhappy. Very soon the wearing of masks and selling false status will cause nothing but pity, the media will not cause, it will switch as the smart people are switching from the channel on which appear Kiselyov and Solovyov. Excuse me for a bit of policy. How to work with it? I prefer often to use the third chair. And to plant as many personalities as there are. If you own a constellation, it is also very useful. Well, art therapy, this is where it is used at full capacity.
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