As boys men, male sexual problem of the syndrome of the troublesome expectation of sexual failures (STON). They are too fixated on their personal situation, and sexual difficulties that does not contribute to the normal flow of sexual intercourse.
this time I have an appointment, as a sexologist, psychotherapist and family psychologist, has been a client of Moscow.
He confirmed the typical difficult behavior of customers with the problem of STOCK, saying that too much thinks of everything. He has anxiety, which contributes to the development of additional fear of repeat sexual failure.
To all to understand, I, as a family psychologist, psychotherapist and sexologist, has gone to its past to understand where legs grow its men's sexual problems syndrome of anxious expectation of failure.
the First thing that often manifests itself is not a positive first experience of sex. There was a girl who was, besides, a virgin, and it was quite difficult and unclear.
somehow, once one of the customers asked me: I am 16 years old, wanna have sex first time - what would you recommend for me? – I recommend that in such situations, or a girl with sexual experience, even if it's older. Better when you teach what you yourself are going to fill their cones.
In principle, nowadays, not so hard to find girls who love sex, and are ready to work without unnecessary difficulties. You can even attract a lady with bouquets, candy, etc., and she is gonna do, it's a sexy bonus.
Then, subsequent "sex" my client from Moscow in many respects it was also a difficult format. Hence, there has been a bad experience. I, as a psychologist-sexologist, eliminated from the guy. There were jokes on the part of girls who have formed self-doubt from my client from Moscow, and contributed to the syndrome of the troublesome expectation of sexual failures (STON).
Instead, we added passion and desires. We must remember that past experiences have already left. I cleaned the negative component, taking with him into the future of what is perceived by the client as a plus, something good, or positive experience. This, too, and we take this into account.
it Should be noted that also it is necessary to change beliefs about the partner. If we think that our partner is not good, the problematic, one which I either quickly stop, or it can't be trusted, etc., often, this variant of the second half, we found.
Therefore, we, the psychologists, sexologists, we know that such clients are shown to eliminate negative limiting beliefs, and further methods of introducing positive beliefs when, for example, I resort to techniques NLP, and psychotherapy quick changes for a thorough remedy the situation.
today our psychotherapeutic session has been completed. The client has to comprehend that, and something to look at with new eyes. Further, the willingness of the guy, we will continue our work.
P. S. This article is fictional and real characters is irrelevant.
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