This question to me, as a psychologist-sexologist, is often asked by my clients from Moscow.
This occasionally happens, especially when you have lived some years together.
She indicated that with her husband they about four years. Sometimes there are attempts to have sex with one or the other, but somehow, a little initiative. Hence, not everything goes as we would like. The impression that sex doesn't need him or her.
Now, the client began to understand that it can go far, and relationships in sex to work.
I Note that the General background in a pair of rather good fights almost never happens.
I started working with a girl, and the first thing we came: think don't know about. So often, especially when the women is anorgasmia, and need for sex is small. During sex there are different kind of «otvlekli”, and thoughts can wander anywhere, not only in the sphere of sex.
Now we worked this theme, along the way eliminating that, after all, there is some misunderstanding: nothing to talk about. Hence, the approach of her husband sex is not entirely clear. Probably, it is necessary to communicate more, and then the situation will change.
I helped her eliminate the fear of being misunderstood, some tightness, and self-doubt.
Instead, the girl filled herself with the thought that her husband was an understanding partner. He told his wife that he would have liked more initiative from her, and talk about sex to them would be welcomed.
Now we examine the topic need to be liberated. Closure of the girls came from her little sexual experience. Client's husband – was her second man in terms of sex.
I, as a sexologist, psychotherapist, and marriage counselor, helped to eliminate some of the conditions that prevented the sex. There was disorientation and perplexity; lack of understanding of ourselves, apathy, anxiety and tension, and low emotionality; problems in the head, and difficulty with expression of feelings.
Instead, my client from Moscow, found light-heartedness, ease, desire of sex.
And as usual, the final chord of the sex therapy aspect of anorgasmia, has been working with the sexual identity of girls. This allows you to permanently stabilise the situation through changing the image of yourself last, and attainment of a smooth and harmonious internal state: “I'm the one that successful in sex, and act as you think proper”.
P. S. This article is fictional and real characters is irrelevant.
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