based On a single relationship table decided to build his scale of levels of development men.
It determines how a man is able to manage your life, be responsible for what is happening, and to protect the interests of other people. Of course it's not perfectly accurate hierarchy in which each place is strictly defined, but insights about your life progress to.
In the table there is interaction with the woman, as the fundamental role of men disclosed only in the presence of the opposite sex.
the norm, the zero level, I took the state of the relationship when a man and a woman control what is happening in half. It's something to aspire to most, and therefore count towards the "minus" and "plus"side.-5 Man disconnected from realitythe Alcoholic or addict who does not control his life, and not responsible for anything in the lives of others. For him all about his family (mother or wife in the first place). A child in an adult's body, immaturity and inadequacy of what is happening.
it is important to understand that it doesn't have to be alcohol, it is generally full anesthesia from reality in the form of drugs, gambling, unwillingness to get a life.
Often, these men psychologically not increased, because it is not separated from the family. They can't make decisions at all, and completely dependent on parents.
-4 Male unmanagedMan doesn't run from reality, but does not know how to direct your energy and power constructively, so spends her aggression. First and foremost, in relation to his woman or family, i.e. people who will not leave him (at least quickly).
in Addition to inappropriate aggression such men often sarcastic, sarcastic, even if you don't show physical violence. They have not learned to send her anywhere. Control over their actions is extremely scarce, the man knows not where to direct the energy.
-3 the Man does not paythe Level at which man has already overcome the most difficult problems, but not able to earn living with parents or in a woman, and not able to support the flow of resources.
It can be creative or periodic jobs, he has any Hobbies, but he can't get out of that profit. Accordingly, it depends on who it contains, and attached to them.
-2 Male weakHe is able to earn some money and provides a small but steady flow of resources.
But it has a notable weakness: he can literally ill, or in a figurative sense, to be weak and afraid of the new, to take risks and change the world for themselves. He is afraid of conflict, pain, unpleasant consequences that he will have no resources to cope.
These men often seem outwardly nice and good, but to him there, or feeling pity, or feeling that this man is not able to compete with others. Because that's what the feeling they feel inside.
-1 Male dependent on estimatesFrom the estimates of others, from the views of mothers, their women, from the norms of society. It inhibits the fear not to please other people that it was hard for him.
This is the last stage where control is not strong enough, and the woman (relatives, friends) have to "get" a man to help to overcome resistance to act.
Often, these men know how to please and impress, even active aggression against the people around, but do it sporadically, there's no skill system to go forward.
In the first place, because active aggression is not peculiar to them, and the people around do not approve of aggressive behavior, do not expect it from men.
0 – a man and a woman partnersthe Ideal current world, to aspire to most.
the Man and woman earn about the same or do business together, their control over the lives conventionally. They equally pay the rent, together pay for the entertainment, of the important decisions thereon, and of the important decisions on it.
But anxiety is also divided equally, that a woman, a man, worried about the future and what is happening.
1 – a Man in controlthis level is already distinctive greater control men have over what is happening in the lives of his family. He is responsible for most processes in business and life, there are many organizational issues, but still consults with a woman, because she is afraid to make their own important decisions.
the Man in such moments, finds that he is not afraid, but simply preserved. And the woman still deals with the administrative matters (budget, administration), as yet not ready to give up all control.
But this occurs only because men still lack the skill to manage it yourself.
2 – adequately aggressive MaleHere the man is already actively using the skills in order to defend their position on controversial issues, protect yourself and family from problems and conflicts, or expands the boundaries of its influence.
the Key point to understand: it is impossible to defend its position, if a man is not necessary. And he needs it soon then more and more resources depend on it –time and money in the first place. Only when a man understands that if the situation is not corrected, then he can deal with it, he begins to get angry, to attack or to defend themselves.
3 – Man controls it all himselfStarting point, when a man controls himself, business, money, and all the important decisions. The woman also learns to trust him and believe that he'll take care of himself.
This is the level on which the man relies on the skills of the woman to administer and manage something for him (money, people, etc.) and does it himself, even if he lacks skills. Of course, he can consult with her (or other people), but it does so from a sense of strength, not weakness.
Here there are serious difficulties to do everything yourself or hiring other people, and thus to abandon the female (maternal) support to find the strength to cope with difficult situations by yourself. Possible serious financial problems that need to be addressed first.
4 – Man protects your investmentLevel, which many would like to go and consider it final. Man copes with financial and management problems, his future and the future of his family and people around is protected.
control of the men stable and covers the whole of his family and entourage. He has enough power and resources to reliably predict the future for the next couple of years.
5 – Man changes the worldthe Level at which man has quite the same fullness of control and power that his family is protected forever. Then he invests the money in innovative world-changing projects, charities, and wishes to leave the most significant mark in my life.
Its influence extends to the whole world. It can be scientific discoveries, charities, political activity, or some other means.
the people on this level include bill gates, Mark Zuckerberg, Richard Branson.!
