If you ask "Who's your greatest enemy?", what do you say?
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It's the same one and the main one is you.
"But remember, the main enemy is always within you."
Everything inside you.
Any decisions in your adult life – they are only yours.
the sooner you realize that, the easier it is to move on.
the Solution is not only something global, not to pack their bags and skipped town. The solution is our small and large, daily polls.
After all, you and only you choose your environment, your profession, what you eat for Breakfast or with whom to sleep. You prove it every day, week or at any other interval.
Just do not always understand (or want to understand) that this is so.
If you say "Well I listened to mom/dad/husband/wife/friend/aunt Claudia/uncle Bob..." (underline) – it means that YOU listened, YOU heard what you wanted and YOU made that decision.
If you say so familiar and comfortable, so a long time ago you made this choice and introduced him to the rank of the inviolable.
If you say "well, I don't know" - so no one but you can't know. Perhaps somewhere inside the decision has been made, only you're afraid to stand out. For a variety of reasons.
to Take its responsibility for the selection of hard. Infantile man, such a thing seems beyond reality. You've got no one to shove all, if suddenly will not work or will work, but not the way I wanted originally.
Some decisions may lead to a situation of "smeared on the asphalt", Yes, scary, but it will be your experience from which to draw lessons, which will last a long time.
Some choices will be hard, but kompensiruet spectacular finale.
What will happen exactly and inconspicuously.
you Never know what really happens in the end, but you can accept and make an effort for the desired scenario.
There is a rather famous phrase, it sounds like this: "Sometimes you need to swim to reach the bottom and push off". Here are some of the choices are such that we need to stop breath and take them.
Take what is yours.
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