What can be the backbone of personality? The state that some of the classics called happiness: "did you have fun that you are not ashamed."
for example, to be filled up for the whole evening or afternoon with a favorite book and basket of Goodies... is this not happiness?
Another thing, whether will allow you to roll your conscience? Not if she says that the house is not removed, and things not done.
maybe you are not allowed Pets who also want to laze around, but the voice of their conscience louder.
I used the word "conscience." It familiar. Many of us learned it in childhood, when one of the adults said something like: "have you no shame all the day idle? You have no conscience...". And then the tirade about how hard they have, unlike you. The implication of the tirade: "maybe I want a book and snacks, but I..... does not allow!! With a fright someone's lying here instead of me, generally all conscience people lost!!"
sound Familiar?
Now many of these grown-up children have to work unloved work, drown the voice of conscience (crossed out) moms and dads. Usually, such votes are hidden parental settings that you "bought" them, themselves "successful" is now used.
So, to find support for yourself – it means to find your soul your own rules of your life, which of course satisfy your personal interests in life, and your personal conscience (not the parent installation, who, under her disguise).
the Most banal advice on finding support for yourself will be the answer of Confucius: "find a job you love, and you will never have to work."
Today you can visit the understanding of how you could live if you realized what your soul seeks.
And, of course, all the "devil's advocate" (or public opinion in his face) are going to resist you.
the First obstacle is the social status. This is a very valuable "piece" in modern society. Dreams of being, for example, "veterinarian", it means to break through replica citizens like: "hmm... I, too, found a job, twist the tails of cows.... you see, kicked her out of the chiefs...".
the Second is inertia and habits established personal microcosm. A series of failures when you (seemingly) tried to live differently, but... it did not work, like links hands down to laziness all your plans.
most Likely, even the glimmer of dreams, it becomes unclear what to do next, how to implement? Besides, how many have invested in "self-development" and all not for the future.
For those who today can choose to leave things as they are, the current state will be like Satori – perception of one's own Truth, and how it is not perfect, it will yield to the usual condition of the tired mind.
For those who have the personality profile pronounced achievement motivation, past failures can be an incentive to the attainment of truth supports itself.
the Main question today may be: "why putting so much effort into its development, in search of his destiny, I still marking time?"
the Answer may dumbfound you, "it's hard to find a black cat in a dark room, especially if it's not."
You can search for their "purpose" in a dark room. Did you other rooms of your life? And what prevents you to have a broad Outlook, instead of a single point of view on your place in life?
I noticed that we are all following the example of other people: will she, or won't like it. If our relatives are a profession of doctors, or we go along the footsteps of their parents, or choose something different from their profession, and go there "not knowing Ford", just NOT a doctor and all.
Often we judge the professions of white or blue collar representatives of these professions (employees or workers). Often judged by the amount of public recognition, addressed to the representatives of certain professions, or by the amount of money that you can get in the industry.
We choose fame, money, respect...but not themselves. In the "dark room" can be and respect and fame, you can even find them. But "black cat", your destiny, there may not be.
TIP: making a request "destiny", don't click on the automatic "money" or "fame". Even if your tongue said "destiny" and your "dark part of the soul" wants money, or not to be, as mother, is implemented unsaid, but strongly felt.
How to connect words and true intentions? Almost as easy as being happy to do yourself pleasure, and not feel remorse of receiving them.
P. S. In fact, the technique of psychological work to integrate both of them exist. That's only on training sessions on "self-development" it is not taught, to them you "sell" picture of the world and perspective of the authors of the training. Not looking for your.
P. P. S. I help to solve this query (to find the inner centre and support themselves) to individual work. The timing for everyone. Depends on your starting point and your personal speed. Guarantee that the end will come – no. Every time you after the session will be "stronger" than in the past, but after all, people always need "more."
Your Irina Panina
a Doctor of Psychology, Hypnology
Together we'll find the way to your hidden opportunities!
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