the Tsarev Natalia
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- is this really your goal?
Most of what we want in fact not tested for validity. Simply put - it is not our purpose and intention. Who? Environment, family, boss, public write, it is necessary to become an entrepreneur. And here desires such as "I want to be a millionaire" or "Want to marry a millionaire".
to see your most true desire and choose the direction of motion, where will the income of joy in every day, you should be able to get back to the center of yourself. This is a unique practice that allows you to filter out all the outer husk and finally understand what is the best business and choice for me. The practice of centering originate from martial arts, particularly Aikido. When the attention is in the center of the body, characterized by calmness and clear thinking that allows you to answer the question "What I really want?" as honestly as possible, relying only on their own values and criteria. - there is No resonance.
a client Comes to the coaching and long talks about what he wants and why, nothing comes out. After the question "How you want it on a scale from 0 to 10?" the client hangs and sometimes it is something like "Well, basically... you want". There's no energy. Where you it affects in the body? Where you live your purpose? No passion, no real desire, or as we used to say "motivation". The resonance in the body - when talking about the purpose and there is a feeling "wow!". When you know and believe that it is possible. "I want, damn it, this more than anything right now!" Resonance again on the sensations of the body, its language, not the language of the brain. - Fear of falling.
Often, for so long looking for the right path that stands still, hangs endless considering the variety of options:
- what if...?
- And suddenly not work?
- what are the guarantees better all 150%, it's mine and I succeed?
Stephen Gilligan on the course "Generative trance" once again gave us a metaphor about how children learn to walk. First is the need and longing desire: to crawl, to stand, to stay, to balance the body. This is one of the most complex skills in life, we learn.
have You seen how many times children fall before you learn to stand confidently on his feet? Do you think once they have an idea of the type "I knew it! I told you! It's not mine" or "This is because the mother in childhood did not like. Rough childhood I had".
All these three major points in the movement toward any goal is possible and necessary to learn to clarify for myself, as the question of the truth of the purpose and existence of resonance. And, of course, work with the fear of failure is a valuable part of the generative approach to therapy and coaching.
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