Every person in the world perceives in its own way. It is the perception - allows us to quickly assess an event or situation from a position of experience. Someone is to look at yourself from someone while this skill is not. And in order to facilitate their existence in a conflict situation, I suggest you try to understand:
1. How do you react to conflict?
2. What moves you during the conflict?
3. What happens to you during the conflict?
Technique resolution of the conflict situation (modification of Kornilovoj O.)
Objective: to understand how a particular conflict situation reflects the customer "now."
Objectives: find the relationship between the conflict situation and the interaction with the outside world.
Content: A4 paper, pencils, metaphorical maps.
Age: 15 years
Time: 1 hour
Remember some kind of conflict situation that is bothering you at the moment. Take a sheet of paper and draw the Apple and the worm, where the Apple is you, the worm is a conflict situation. Try to analyze the picture that you see and feel the "now."
Next, take a metaphorical card and a secured pull out one at a time, answering the following questions:
- What happened to you during a conflict situation?
- what you see as a metaphor?
- what happened after a conflict with your work?
- what happened after the conflict with your contacts (family, friends)?
- what is happening in your world view?
- productive, what happened to you after there was a conflict situation?
- what are you thanking this situation? she helped you to understand?
- what qualities of your personality have helped, or help you to overcome it?
- as soon as you will be able to process this situation?
- now you can see as a metaphor?
Conclusion: Answering 10 question, the client is invited to recall the metaphor in the answer to question 2 and see what he has changed in the response to question 10. Technology helps to see the relationship of conflict with the external environment
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