I am a happy woman of fifty. Of course, young I was, as beautiful and slender, in the classical sense, was never!
It is “never” sounds are not a sentence, as in childhood, when you think is the most ugly girl in the class. all the stories about ugly ducklings, which are then stretched and become slim lebedushka is not my story.
Duck was so thick and awkward that after three months of severe diet and inept Jogging at 6 in the morning during school holidays, losing more than ten pounds, received a weight equal to the value of his small stature. As a student, after the huge hardship that could barely fit in the clothes forty-eighth the size.
This duck I was until, until I went to study psychology, and this was my second education. At the pedagogical Institute, I was very similar to the heroine of the film “Love on their own” the talented Yevgeniya Glushenko.
by the Way, the first time I saw it it was in the late eighties, while still a student of the pedagogical Institute, I started to put into practice the advice the hero of this film, in a brilliant performance of Oleg Yankovsky:
- Legs, like a goat's horns, was fixed skirt... shorter, which oddly enough have looked much better on me than sewn on my mom's design her friend the old-fashioned skirt-Gade mid to full ankle!
- in Spite of mom's protests, I began to wear shoes on the heel of not less than 6 inches, and the parties wore 12-inch heels that made my 164 cm, pretty good growth and were visually removed about 5-7 pounds
- Eyebrows were neatly plucked, they had a nice spread, like a swallow's wings
- Small coovadia eyes wide Tatar cheekbones acquired a playful feline appearance when highlighted with light arrows. For some they are not fashionable and relevant, and for me – the only way to make the eyes beautiful.
- Only in more than 20 years, I have learned that I have a waist, but still is! Maybe its the dimensions themselves are not could compete with a waist Lyudmila Gurchenko, but accented by a wide belt, she stood out on the background is always very wide hips.
Yes, everything is relative and it is very important not to find to compare with you not suitable objects.
maybe if I began to compare themselves with the mega-popular during my youth mannequins and various pageant winners from such external data, which gave me nature could just lay hands on yourself?
At the beginning of the film heroine, like my youth, exclaims:
- For me those eyes, that forehead!
however, slowly changing, not only internally, but also externally and in her life, with time, comes mutual love.
Slowly, and in my life began to change.
Now I admire other actress, is also something similar to me in height and complexion. Forty years Irina Pegova reminds me of me ten years ago. However I didn't have such a beautiful face.nbsp;
by the Way, in spite of the particular texture of this talented actress always playing women with rich personal life.
Probably because men is not always looking for a serious relationship a woman with model looks?
And the unforgettable Natalia Gundareva managed to steal other people's husbands!
Follow these simple exercise
- Remember how happy (in personal life) women (neighbors, work colleagues, classmates) know you?
- one of them met their partner at the age of thirty/ forty/fifty years?
- how many of these women are real beauties?
And ask yourself the following questions:
- is it important visual appeal?
- is it Possible to create with your hands, with your external data, just with a little effort and having overcome laziness?
P.S. most Importantly, believe in your inner attractiveness and out from the fire that flickers in the vessel. Tomorrow I'll tell You how to raise your self-esteem with deck metaphoric associative cards(IAC) , which is called “the Fire flickering in the vessel”. the Girls, all with holiday!
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