my Dear good, kind, cute, unique, unique person. Here you can be who you are. Real, vulnerable, timid, brave, proud, greedy, envious, tender, whatever.
You can talk about everything, what hurts the soul. Here you will not condemn, does not appreciate, will not be ashamed to say that good people do not behave.
You know that you can be yourself. To show different feelings: to share the extreme joy, to cry the loss of a loved or beloved, and to spit flames of anger, to live is victory or defeat.
there is much, but there are limits: you cannot hit people and furniture, not to talk about the crimes and government secrets. These are the rules of safety and mine.
You will receive support, but sometimes there will be medical pendeli in the form of conversations about the things that make you uncomfortable, cause anger, shame, guilt, despair, loneliness. It is necessary that the soul freed from those feelings to make room for the love, awe, inspiration, strength.
If you feel that pendel is too painful, tell me and we will go from pain to search for resources. But if the pain of shame, anger, despair, grief will look for ways out - you will need to give it to them so they flowed like pus from a wound. If not give him to go - he'll continue to slowly poison the life.
don't worry pain, I'll be there as long as necessary. When the question arises, "Well how much can you suffer?" The answer is: "Until you get better." Imagine you're a seed, you were a sprout and it makes its way to the light. He was at this time hurt, but to rush it otherwise it will remain a seed and will not become a flower, grass or tree.
What you seed and how long it takes for growth is not known. Here are the approximate boundaries, they depend on initial conditions and what you put. If you just want to germinate is one term, if you become for adults a flower or two. If you're a fruit tree or Sequoia, the growth is much more.
I'll be there as much as you need, but I will not be able to grow and experience the feelings instead of you. It's your job and my job is to witness the miracle of your transformation.
In our highly spiritual Union, there are two household thing: time and money.
I am not with you next hour, we meet in my office and time of each meeting is limited. But during this short period you are filled with a sense of security, values, and awareness. You get out of auto mode, start to better understand and feel their desires. The confidence in their abilities and you become the master of itsher life.
the Second point is my fee. Psychotherapy for me is work, fun, important, meaningful process. Our meeting happened through my work, otherwise we probably would not have these conversations about the most important in your life. I'm not a parent, not a relative, not a friend or loved one. Neutral than our relationship, the richer conditions for your changes, which you addressed to me. Money is not only the fee, but also one of the favorable factors for the certainty of what we do. Without fee it's not therapy. We will be able to each other openly offended, angry, call each other at night. The value of therapeutic contact is lost. You will cease to be a client and I'm a professional. It seems that you here not behind it came.
Here we both work. I hope that our Union will be productive, meaningful, alive.
let the Force be with you.
