All cases. All the names in the article changed.
One day I came to the woman at the reception named Zlata. The story is, she's 45 years old. Husband for 20 years married. And 2 sons. And she hates all that she does. Her first words were "Either I kill him or gets sectioned". Let's start from the beginning, at the age of 20 she fell in love with the man of her dreams. A month later I was married. And then the crisis began, at once! She wanted ease and happiness, and to his children and a standard of living like everyone else. She wanted to dance and to go around the world (finances allowed), and he wanted the cottage and garden. She wanted a career, and he was not allowed to work. Everything went as she wanted entreaties and arguments, he did not accept. Because everyone lived and nothing to change the system.
And here she was sitting in my office, and in the bag were a knife.
We started with small steps, because her husband was very suspicious and sometimes aggressive.
gold went to learn , got more work, then we started to cook children (the eldest was 17 youngest 5.). Children understand that CHANGE can be.
Then, we started conversations with her husband. And everything seems to be going well but one day the attack occurred husband for Gold. It ended up that he Packed up, went and signed up to see me.
I would Not speak. The result is that her husband was a completely different version. He thought he was doing everything right. And at the end of their marriage was so tired that didn't exit, except how to inflict pain.
And only after half a year they talked in my office. The dialogue was calm and nice (thanks to the sand therapy). They realized that initially, both were wrong. And we had often to talk. And most importantly, not be afraid of divorce. Everyone makes mistakes!
At the moment he has a wonderful wife, who gave birth to three more children. They sweepout in the country and eat food from his garden.
But it (still goes for maintenance therapy) enrolled in dancing , flirting with men, have a career(best in company) and travels a lot.
So , here my friends! Don't be afraid to change if it's not possible! Talk more often! And of course fulfill your dreams!
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