Each of us in one way or lesser extent, experienced a difficult situation. Situations that knocked people out of life, peace, balance.....
Another question, how can every get out from this state, because the feelings of many: aggression, pain, resentment, indifference, devastation, irritability, tearfulness, feelings of guilt, fear, uncertainty, etc.
But I do care when reminder a given situation, how a person feels? How to live freely, no matter what?!
I often hear when in the life of man is a difficult moment, many say, forget, raise your hand and let go, don't overthink it. On the one hand, Yes indeed it is, need to forget, but... Psyche, as the tool remembers the traumatic event. Yes, our mind can "erase temporarily, from memory a very painful memory."
Example:
the Man fell and the pit and broke his leg, and if he forgets your experience (and especially that the pit you want to crawl), he will again fall into it. Yes. I'm not talking about pathological anxiety, phobias. But, the real instinct of self-preservation. If included iron we know he's hot, we handle them very carefully. Isn't it? This does not mean that the man has managed to get into the pit, he must pathologically afraid of pits.
Here is a more complex example: the Girl was raped. Really traumatic event, physical, psychological, moral, total devastation. Many of my colleagues, believe that we need to help to forget this event and move on, I'm still with you. But I'm starting to look at PTSD from the other side.
I came to the conclusion, unresolved traumatic event very detrimental effect on the human, Intrusive ideas, thoughts, emotions, into itself is drawn into the swamp of the man, enveloping fear, pain, and disappointment.
I practiced on somatic diseases, and came to the conclusion that all of my patients, in varying degrees, experienced a traumatic event, as practice shows, not even one. So as one thing leads to lots of other not less painful.
go figure.
1.Do I need to listen to advice: on forget, let go?
2.And why only for a while are these tips?
3.Why people again and again is going through, and particularly when repeated similar weather conditions, a specific month, a specific ritual actions, emotions, and behavioral aspects of the experience?
I've seen people who throughout their lives after traumatic events cling to a number of somatic and neurotic disorders.
Suppose before a difficult situation people lived, rejoiced, was not the obsessive thoughts. But after the person starts to hurt. And one after another all around the circle. People to the doctors, they're all fine. Man closes, he begins to listen to yourself, but unfortunately not as it should be....
Case study: after a series of "failures" postponed traumatic events of a person has developed insomnia, obsessive ideas, problems with the digestive tract, pain in the heart area, almost always had neck (muscle clips), there were cramps, lump in throat, bone pain and more. The patient to the doctors asked for each cause, without any deviations is not revealed. The patient is like trying to solve? Correctly Internet, self-diagnosing, self-healing, makes himself personally verdict: Oncology (cancer).
How I see solutions to the problem: (it is recommended to contact and trust specialist)
Indeed, people have recognized, this situation paralyze my happy life, this situation prevents to relax and live in the buzz.
As shown by my practice, when committed by the other a ritual action that is supported by positive attitudes, found and put on a pedestal and modeled new former resources, my patients get rid of a number of diseases, begin to live, to breathe, to feel the freedom from their negative thoughts.
the song of Natasha Koroleva: "close but no cigar, but life goes on....."
my Dear to you, close but no cigar, or all it all starts with this
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