As broadcast statistics, in the spring committed a greater number of sexual infidelities, and begins the time of new loves and romances.
From the point of view of science, spring need for love can be explained by the instinct to procreate just like animals that Wake up from hibernation and start searching for couples for procreation, the man instinctively begins to seek new experiences of love and acute romanticheskih experiences in order to enliven yourself and your relationship.
In the biochemical process for such "out of hibernation," responds to the hormone melatonin, production of which is associated with day length. There is also a link between melatonin production and the condition of the human reproductive system.
for Example, reduced concentrations of melatonin occur in puberty, when the hormones kick in full swing. That is, melatonin acts as a brake, which in the spring just stops working.
So from a biological point of view, but if you look at the human desire to start a new romance, a new relationship, when the existing long-term relationships through the prism of the psychology of relationships, everything is not so transparent and just, as such situations could be a million and a small truck all sorts of reasons.
CAUSES of CHEATING IN a PAIR
No. 1
In the first place can imagine a situation where partnership between people is energy that can be expressed in words or feelings and it doesn't show up in the pair. That is, each of the partners, for example, expressed his irritation at something and carry this energy within themselves. As you know any energy like an underground spring at the time finds a way and direction, because forever containerwith impossible, and it can result in the symptom - or disease that is not rare in the fact of adultery.
No. 2
Cheating may not have any relation to the partner. It becomes part of the search itself — including through the adoption of their sexuality and work through childhood injuries.
for Example: a Woman can be very happily married with an intelligent man, but if in her youth she wasn't allowed to meet up with a dangerous biker, as an adult, she can find a similar lover to "closure".
No. 3
In 2013, the British-American group of scientists has published the results of a study, which revealed that people cheat because they get pleasure, not even sex or flirting with another person, and breaches of morality. Sometimes people like to feel “wrong”, betrayal — just one of the ways to demonstrate to others their strength and audacity. this may Particularly be relevant for those who in childhood had to be correct and not violate the canons of family created by the parents.
No. 4
If in couple relationships "all is not well and smoothly" and this imbalance is already long enough, one of the partners may unconsciously take revenge another the state of their accumulated resentment. While cheating may not always be sexual in nature, as expressed, for example in a strong love for the work (workaholism).
No. 5
Low self esteem changing.
If so, the person whose low self-esteem, often formed such a need to constantly prove to himself and his greatness and his wonderful as a lover or a mistress.
And important part of even the Central question in the subject of marital fidelity and energy conservation within the family is the family values of each of the partners, as well as knowledge about their sexual fantasies, an understanding of their true sexuality and the ability to build their own personal boundaries, to maintain and to build partnerships.
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