the subconscious speak very much. Its secrets are trying to figure out to use the huge potential of this sector of the psyche for their own benefit. But is the game worth the candle? Whether its power is so strong, and the potential limitless?
this is clearly evidenced by the fact that we subconsciously perceive information in 250, 000 times faster than consciously. Accordingly, processing of information and decision-making at the unconscious level also occurs several thousand times faster.
Who is stronger: the subconscious mind or consciousness
In this context we should remember the metaphor of the genius of Sigmund Freud that the subconscious is the horse, and the mind – rider. Their strength and power are not comparable. In the moments when the rider can't handle the horse, ask the right direction, it is easier to pretend that he had intended to go exactly where suffered wild animal.
In the unconscious much more energy, thanks to which it has such powerful potential. Consciousness in this sense is much weaker. However, in order not to admit it, it often pretends that he acts according to his will.
Example
a Man in a child felt rejected. This injury went deep into the subconscious and not realized. As a result, in adult life there are problems with close contacts. He can't understand why no relations: constantly having to leave partner or abandoning him. Actually “plays” childhood trauma is the fear to be rejected. But it remains “behind the scenes” perception.
the point is that when there is the prospect to establish close relationships, the subconscious mind begins to resist. Like themselves, created a situation in which there is a desire to leave. And the reason can be the most different: from “not giving flowers” to “changes”. The reason one subconscious fear feel rejection. And if there is no convergence, it is impossible. Therefore, it is not happening.
So, the unconscious desire to protect ourselves from pain are in conflict with the desire to build a happy relationship. And the subconscious always wins, because it has a lot of energy.
PS
introducing the unconscious tendencies, fears, trauma robs them of power. Becomes clear the true causes of behavior, mistakes and failures.
Only one awareness, of course, will not change anything. Will have to make an effort to change habitual patterns of behaviour aimed at the satisfaction of unconscious motives to more productive and useful. Then the government will change, and power will gain conscious goals and desires.
Awareness is the first step towards the desired changes, but not all the way.
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