I Wanted to start with the fact that we are all individuals and even children born from the same mom and dad, they are still different and they don't need to compare, and just need to take. Similarly, in relations men and women, we are different by nature, so why are are often believe that should be identical to the partner and our(her) an ally of the family? Start with the fact that family partnership is a team of two people, and the best team out of players with different abilities. Each of you unique as a person, but together you can achieve more. If you want your relationship to be successful and bring happiness to both of you for a long time, you need to overcome these differences. Or rather, to see in them advantages. He, for example; well, it turns out, talking on the phone, and you have to write letters. One of you very organized, but in time the other is able to remind everyone that a good idea to relax. One loves to make children Hiking in the forest, but the other deals with crafts and tells a fascinating story. So, every time your partner irritates you, does something you did not understand, or not doing what, in your opinion, should do, just don't forget about the advantages that gives you your otherness!
Remember and follow a few rules in love.
- always Be yourself, work on your behavior and not try to make the partner the "right" in your opinion, impression, you only exhaust yourself. Be yourself. it's better to be all at once understood and you can see all your pros and cons than later and the consequences in your relationship.
2. Let go of old relationships, understand what went wrong, make conclusions. If your latest love failure has left you in an emotionally crushed state, it is not worth while to think about finding a new partner. First, come to your senses and dispose of the damage. This is necessary because, first, will not be able to face her future husband in his true manner; and secondly, the employment itself, will not allow you to appreciate the partner.
3. Saligia their wounds. And when you think the recovery period is completed, choose the one who is with you in approximately equal position, that is, a man whose emotional trauma is healed enough. The arrangements work for both parties. The meeting of two adequate, full of people, not already experiencing acute pain from past failures, they have the opportunity to know each other in perspective and start a relationship exactly as they will continue later.
4. Learn to be happy alone, then that would share their happiness with loved ones. To be one (mu) is good, but to be loved is even better.
5. Listen to your inner voice when choosing a partner by asking yourself, do you feel doubt or not this man. Don't bet on the one in whom doubt, he (she) may be different. Don't be under you if your partner is aware before you to readiness. As you have come to it, or rejected. Engaging in a family partnership when there is a feeling of doubt, it is madness and with greater consequences in the future. If you're initially not quite sure this is quite normal. For the firm belief require weeks, months or even years. Do not rush, stop until you believe firmly. But if you met the person with whom you are destined to live the rest of your life, you won't think: "I don't know....He (a) himself can't understand Correctly... or not?". Call your thoughts and feelings will be screaming about: "yeah, yeah, Yeah I want it!" This will mark your readiness for marriage.
6. On the road with a laugh is the best indicator of the human soul. If you like this laughter, it is possible to assume about his bright and sincere human soul despite the emotional trauma, illness and other troubles. The best option when choosing a life partner is the one who can make you laugh over you without judging. This can make it easier to overcome life's difficulties. If you meet someone who has a beautiful appearance or sweet smile, do not give in to temptation. Make sure that this person can make you laugh without resorting to secodam and clowning. Sense of humor will stay with you even when everything else is gone.
7. Ask for forgiveness first. And remember, you ask for forgiveness for having allowed a useful discussion of the differences, lead to the level of an argument. In a dispute always involves two, and you ask for forgiveness for having allowed this situation and the fact that they let themselves go, but not for their beliefs and opinions. Show an example; maybe one of you can be magnanimous, noble, open, and ready for reconciliation as adult (th) personality.
8. Consider the opinions that you show to a loved one (oops) respect.
9. If you can say something nice – say. We all need approval. We're human, and it is inherent in human nature.
10. Don't be the parent to your partner he (she) had enough of that in childhood. Be better parents to their own child or a pet.
11. Do not shift responsibility. You are an independent adult person, and, if you live with someone doesn't mean that they can not themselves something to worry.
12. Jealousy is yours, not his (her) problem.
13. Do not forget sometimes to create a romantic atmosphere.
14. Do not "saw" partner. If he (she) is not going to do something even out of love for you, then certainly don't do this if you make. Perhaps he has good reason.
15. Don't undermine partner to a low self-esteem and self-confidence by controlling and making decisions for both of them.
16. Do not be offended if the partner requires some freedom. If you deny them it, they begin to feel trapped.
17. If you have more money than the partner, you should pay more.
18. You make choices every day. No one but you is not responsible for what position you are in.(it)
19. Don't cause each other pain, don't suppress relatives of the spouse, do not hold the crocodile in the marital bed. Your partner must feel that you love him and care about him, what his interests you the utmost.
20. Keep high moral principles. You should remain good, civilized and morally irreproachable. Play by the rules.
21. Learn from your mistakes, and learn to overcome them.
22. Do not break relations with relatives. Family always ready to support and you have to be ready for it.
23. Always find time for loved ones, even if it's for you isn't always convenient.
the Main thing in life – true love. And I think some of it is. If the people who are able to find their partners, and both share the happiness, know how together through difficult times, maintaining the freshness of the relationship and mutual satisfaction. But for most of us it is hard work. Perhaps love and truth based on instinct.
Principles will help to maintain strong, long term relationships and understanding.
Love each other and be happy!!!
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