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I Note that vaginismus is not so rare sexual problem I, as a sexologist, psychotherapist, and marriage counselor have to work.
Not so long ago I was a girl of twenty-odd years of Moscow. She said that she was going to get married, but sex is still there, although it's been about a year, as she has a relationship.
We started to deal with the situation, and found out that the client was always uptight, shy and modest. Periodically her thoughts that she is not like everyone else. And then, after multiple failed attempts at sex, she still decided to see a specialist, psychologist-sexologist, because itself already with this problem can not cope.
I began to work with her and we came to the situation of the girl when she was a teenager, and she just started first relationship.
the Client remembered the first boy who was three years older than her. Then, it seemed to her that she was ready to have sex, and did not understand why there is no initiative from the guy. At that time, he was a virgin, and somehow his zerkall girl. In the end, after six months of relationship, the couple broke up, and deciding not to have sex.
I removed the story, as a sexologist and psychologist from the memory of my client, and we moved on.
the Following were the words of his father, who one day said to her: “you're just like your mother. Gonna be cold and not emotional (parents were fighting, again, on the subject of what no sex)”. The girl understood about the problem, and have made some conclusions, which are now followed to remove, so they were not in her history of anorgasmia and vaginismus.
Instead, the client from Moscow felt free from the statements of the parents, and bad jokes peers.
Next, came another memory of a former boyfriend. When he found out that she is a virgin, refused to have sex with her. The client started to feel kind of lame. We have also remedied the situation somewhat by changing the script. Flawed, now looked like the same guy.
Well, now we come already to the future husband. The girl said they quickly abandoned the trial of vaginal sex, and switched entirely to oral option.
I failed her to the fact that it is not necessary all the blame for the situation to take. The best option here is the sexy joint psychotherapy.
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