tale characters, princes and kings, wizards and dragons. If you remember the different stories, they are good, and are evil.
and there are two in one... But in this life, not in fairy tales.
Just in fairy tales usually all clear. There is a world easier. Or good, or evil. Or black, or white. There's the hero either saves or destroys. It positive or negative. Easier to navigate.
But in real life it's different. And if you save, it does not mean that it is you and not ruin. And maybe this death will start a new you. And it will be a rebirth, like a Phoenix. Reborn from the ashes. But this is again from the fairy tales.
you Never know how. The cornerstone of this is no signs on the road: to the right you go - happiness you will find, go left - you lose. And usually the evil and the good just two opposite States of one and the same. Or two opposite perceptions of the same whole. The truth is somewhere in the middle.
First, we meet the heroes in our lives and see only good, then disappointed and, sometimes, we begin to see only the bad.
But until we see a whole, all together, with different faces, our glance will be incomplete and one-sided, but the relationship is not real.
But even if we see no chance that they can be saved.
life is not a fairy tale.
So why did they then? Need fairy tales as guidelines. It is important to have guidelines in life. We get them from childhood from someone older, wiser and went on his way. From parents, from teachers, from books. Tales is our first book.
In a psychological language they can be called interactome, what we absorb, absorbed inside. Almost with mother's milk. Children read fairy tales!
Just life more complicated and multifaceted. But in order to understand, we need to live for yourself. To your experience, to learn your lessons, draw their own conclusions.
the Tale as a support. Sometimes they are, of course, confusing. Because it seems as so! There is supposed to be a happy ending! Or there must be so "and they lived happily ever after."
you Can focus on what we have already learned, or a story. And you can write your... life. It will be your script. The role can also be selected. Of course, it will have some limitations, as in repertoire. Based on your experience and your knowledge, and your limitations you can learn and try not to get into a suit the wrong hero. Although... to try, too. For experience and verification. And suddenly what you knew about yourself, does not correspond to reality or it has changed. In fairy tales there are such examples!
Life is not a fairytale. But...a fairy tale - lie, Yes in it a hint, who knows - the lesson!
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