WHAT is the REASON for the depreciation of MAN?
Cheap just what are without a sense of confidence in itself.
• Erich M. Remarque
Man is so constituted that to live , he needs the recognition .
Recognition is the starting point in the right direction of the chosen strategy of the individual. You need to feel its usefulness in every sphere of life.
what people devalue values , actions , thoughts of others ?
And in order to avoid your own low self-esteem. If it is difficult to achieve something , it is likely to be a replacement for this reason.
Here are a few reasons for depreciation , which lead to distrust and the creation of complex and uncertainty the devaluation of the person.
1. the question of the truth of your words
2. the non-acceptance of your feelings and emotions
3. the conviction of your thoughts and actions
4. own criticality : "thank you" - "nothing"
the communication, it is important to accept and understand dignity as their own and others ,
to build a harmonious relationship.
After the devaluation of the is just a defense mechanism against any negative situaci.
Devalues people, these someone else's point of view.
When the devaluation of the other, pointing out its positive intention:
- If you came in a different costume, for example red , it would be appropriate, and so very not the topic.
there is no love for others, no respect , and support to the opponent, just
shown the manifestation of his own power.
How to protect their self-esteem is devaluing?
1. Not to criticize the words and behavior of others.
2. To see the intent in his statements.
3. To be kinder to people and show them their best side.
4. Tactfully explains that this behavior or the word sad.
This attitude when communicating will raise your self-esteem and give the significance of
your personality.
Trying to hurt the actions and statements of the interlocutor, often means that the other person hides behind such behavior of your panic. fear failure, fear of intimacy and pain, fear of loneliness, uselessness and neznakomoi.
Try to treat people with love, have their own opinion and respect the opinion of another.
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