"what is my purpose?"
a Fairly common question, isn't it? If I hear him answer "I think destiny does not exist."
Let's deal. There is a certain point, meaning, or goal that we have laid down, and we are to walk, to open, to figure out the trick of the universe, solve the puzzle, and in any case, if I believe in destiny, I'm looking for something that was for me. In advance, with love, or at least, with care and knowing that I will be born, will grow just that. the
Prezidenti, and a lifetime quest, like the ones where you have to solve puzzles for ~5000. Or, as in a computer game, where in advance is something that gives the key to the fulfillment of the mission.
If you think so, the world becomes more comfortable. Somewhere there's someone who knows and cares, and the thought warms. And all decided in advance, and I just have to find the treasure. And once and for all, you'll find everything is already yours forever. Overall, sounds good and comforting, because there really is someone who cares. the
Only here there is still a danger and if the purpose is not to be found? Then all of life is lived in vain. Take, lame caught.
But if I've decided that destiny was found, a year later, ready to be hung, because this? Mistaken, looking on, and again, all crosses loaded from the last save. the
Or so. And if I found several of them, one of them is false? Give up, pick one, don't be greedy.
Otherwise, loving someone laid purpose, upset - he was trying so hard, and you...
Or I found. And? Then what, sit down and work on this life is over, let me put my happiness until the end of days? In principle, if the purpose is achieved, then why to move on - the main task from the list is executed.
I don't believe in destiny, mostly because I think this idea is harmful. Yes, sometimes soothing. Yes, giving the target, if not found - to be approved by the society, noble. Only now almost impossible, and if feasible, do not bring pleasure. After all, if I focused on the higher purpose and his mission, I miss life. In this case, coffee is brewed a loved one, has no weight - the main goal and task of my life and not done what coffee, what are you doing? Well, or done Hallelujah to our, you can safely die.
And not haunted by the following: no one knows who the child will grow. How will "drop" to the parent genes, what temperament, what profession will he choose and who will be his first love. And how is a destiny, if not to take into account everything that affects the development of man? Or chance is entirely negated, there is no freedom of will, and all our choice is an illusion? I don't like to feel like a puppet.
So for me, destiny doesn't exist - I'm ready to give up the comfort that brings that idea for the Cup of coffee I loved. And the feeling that what is free itself to choose what is important to me and necessary in my life than I do.
I think the search destination can be replaced by the creation of what is important to me that you need me and others, proceeding not from the fact that everything is predetermined in advance, and somewhere there is a coveted key to all doors, and from what is happening in my life that I'm ready to give this world, and that I need to take to live. And Yes, it can change over time and it's not for life the same as we are changing, not staying the same.