today's about working with my client from Moscow, which felt it lives a something that prevents the disclosure themselves in sex.
With that, I began to work as a sex therapist, psychotherapist and family psychologist.
the Client said about a year ago, she began to feel discomfort in having sex with her husband. Hence, lost of sexual desire, and on change to it came anorgasmia.
the Girl clamped, waiting for the pain. And I would like to relax and have fun and gynaecology, everything is fine. As my client wrote off more on psychosomatics.
the First thing I started working, it's the thought: “it is difficult to relax”. It showed the theme of the fact that her husband is showing, as she said: “excessive activity and desire in sex”. Hence, all his affection, kissing, and touching, which are, as it were, by accident, be sure to turn into sex.
the Client is strained, did impregnable face. This, she thought, repelled and warned him of excess in sex, but now she noticed that her negative external condition, began to contribute to the internal clip.
I helped her become more relaxed and harmonious. Added the ability to play with and indirectly lead to excessive activity in the side, through some psychological instruments which we, immediately, with the client came up with and developed.
Further, there was the theme: “it is difficult to relax, go pain”, and then the idea that sex brings no pleasure. Here was the expectation of pain and fear.
Then I, as a psychologist-sexologist, came to the first, seemingly banal memory of the client, when the pain acted as a protection against unwanted sex.
the Girl began to think of something, from the series: “I have a headache. Today, no sex”, and then – more, she had of the pain, which was already projected at the bottom, and she did not have to feign anything, because the pain was psychosomatic though, but my client from Moscow experienced a real pain.
Now, when everything was clear, we easily removed this psychosomatics.
Well, then, at the next appointment, I, as a psychologist, sexologist and psychotherapist, suitable for the formation of a new sexual behavior and look at yourself as a sexy woman with different thoughts and approaches.
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