Very often we live and think, we are used to templates (rules), they are called attitudes. Part of the plants grafted to us from childhood, others we've acquired in the process of independent life, but they actively affect our lives, particularly in personal life.
Here is a small list of negative attitudes that prevent women to build happy and harmonious relationship.
- All men are assholes, bastards … (substitute your epithet)
- All the decent men already married
- All men alter
- Men only want sex
- All men are rude louts with no respect for women.
- Man is the source of the problem, without it much better
- a Decent man impossible to meet
- with a man that I like I have to be perfect
- men need to please, to adapt to him, to please him
- In the first place should be the man and his interests
- I shall in all ways to show the man, that I am worthy of him and only then he will pick me
- Relationships are all about pain and frustration
And you know what, if a woman believes for example that all men suck, let's be in a society of honest, kind and sincere men, but among these companies there will be a couple of those she considers “goat”, the woman will choose one of the "goats", and then loudly declare that other men simply do not exist, to confirm their rules.
How to be? First you need to try to identify all the negative attitudes that you have, the better they are gradually discharged. To do this, take a notebook or Notepad and a pen, write all your negative thoughts and beliefs, leaving each entry enough blank space to accommodate more text. Time is not limited, but I recommend starting with 10-15 minutes, then you can return to this exercise at any time. So, after you have written your installation in an empty place under the negative setting write a new, reformulated in a positive way. It is best to use a red pen, but you can and blue. For example, installing “men are idiots", can be reformulated in that there are many honest, intelligent and decent men. Old cancels out, and the new solid, as affirmations.
the Main thing is watch your thoughts, once you realize that again think negatively, change your negative belief to positive. Of course this will not happen at once you need time, alternatively you can seek help from a psychologist that will help to get rid of the unwanted plants more quickly and efficiently.
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