what we're talking about is certainly significant, and important, is the information content of the message. However, as we do, emotions, neverblue, how we Express ourselves, what is called the emotional component of speech is more important and meaningful.
Ruthless statistics says that non-verbal component of communication is 60% of the total experience, in fact shapes the overall impression, regardless of what you said or said!
We have looked at a few pitfalls of nonverbal communication, such as
Trap "ice cream in the heat"
Trap "captured space"
Trap "overhang"
Trap "absent glance"
Another unpleasant feature of nonverbal behavior, which causes a negative perception in the listener, serves as a threatening gesture. Body language is part of nonverbal behavior that makes your speech lively and energetic, adding emotion and expression of your speech.
an Example of such behavior can serve as a fist, hitting the bumps on the surface of the table, waving his hands or index finger aimed at him with the threat of, condemnation or indication.
Such actions is preceded by the Frank fight and scuffle, so frighten and alienate the interlocutor, without desire in any way to continue communication. A natural reaction in response to threatening gestures - to end the conversation and move away from such aggressive and inappropriate interlocutor.
At work, in the workplace, often this behavior is typical for the relations of the chief with subordinates, defined as authoritarian style of management. Due to their impunity fairly quickly a state of ecstasy by an authoritarian government, people "helm" slipping into cruelty, aggression and inappropriate behavior and speech is so threatening, aggressive gestures goes into throwing items off the table, and the determination and integrity of statements slipping into the increasing use of obscene words and curses. "Big" boss won't and maybe can't control.
Thus, threatening gestures frightens and alienates the interlocutor, causes in him a desire to cease communication, the speaker turns are not effective, and aggressive companion. Threatening gestures hurting effective communication and development of relationships as a trap of non-verbal communication.
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