but be responsible - units
Aphorism
So strange to hear from the people for the phrase: "you're so lucky with my husband, he does everything for you", "you are so lucky with children, they are docile and caring", "you're so lucky to work they all respect you". I'm not about himself but about the General trend of talk about people who are considered successful. One gets the impression that there are some people that was born with the mark of fate – lucky. And such people never had the need to do something for its success, it was enough to be born.
you Know, we have a lot of articles and books about the ability to take responsibility for their actions. A lot of really good ways to develop this quality in yourself. These recipes really help, if to DO something, not just read about it. You need to be able to understand that the brain development is good, but how will that help if all this knowledge will remain inside your skull?
Many people love to talk about "him/her lucky." Interestingly, at least one of these "reasoning" asked a successful person, and what price he got is happiness? I think not. To talk easier, but not effective. Another very convenient "dump" their failures on the "third person": an unfavorable astrological forecast, placement of the furniture does not on Feng Shui, bad karma, finally.
I'm not in any way want to belittle the advantages of these alternative methods, BUT. You can, for example, to know your detailed astrological forecast for the coming year and to talk differently. Let's say that according to the astrological forecast in the new year man will succeed in business direction. Unsuccessful people will talk like this: "Class! To me it will be a success in may next year. Wait!" And that's all! Will sit and wait, because "the horoscope said." A successful person will reason like this: "Success in may? Class! So, may need to get done..." then a list of things that will help the success happen.
you Know, my life is rich in interesting meetings. For example, among my friends there is a lady who is very serious about technique Feng Shui. So because of this direction, I took the argument, which personally helps me to be successful. I want to share with you.
If our lives and everything that happens in it roughly take for 100%, THEN:
a 30% influence on the events having luck (i.e. something can be predefined)
a 30% influence on the events have circumstances (i.e., unplanned external events, the so-called force majeure)
30% - effect on current events having the man himself (i.e. your decisions)
10% - impact on the events has a ...
we All know that Luck, the lady is very Moody and only likes those who are stronger. Therefore, if a person says "I'm so fate is written", then good Luck will join the Fate. If the person says "so the map (the circumstances) formed" the Fortune joins in the Circumstances. If the same person says "I am responsible for my actions", then good Luck attached to it.
And to finish my article I want words of Yoda in their "Star wars": "the Future is uncertain". You decide how it will be. Good luck to you!
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