Want to understand what the cause of infertility?
One of the key female challenges is the birth of a child. Our body is built for it. But not all women can have children. And a large percentage of the reasons - head.
If you just list the main psychological problems will result in the following:
✔getting stuck in a baby position
✔dependence on parents and lack of separation
✔unwillingness to bear a child because of the kind of husband
✔fear of the pathologies of the child
✔no conditions (money, housing)
✔extreme conditions (conflicts, stress, martial law)the
✔male energy (career, achievements, a man's character, support of the family, etc.)
✔perinatal loss (miscarriages was and out of fear again to lose the body simply blocks the ability to get pregnant)
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Causes a lot more. And before you run to doctors, go first to a psychologist.
!!Today I will tell you how to determine what the problem is in the head.
1. Analyze your race. Whether severe or failed pregnancy/childbirth? Overall fertility? The reason may be fear after rasskazany grandmother stories about difficult births.
2. Write a list of settings that you have regarding children, family, womanhood. Here is an example:
first, we need to live, and then to give birth to;
first, career and then children.
my mom gave birth at 40, it's genetics, etc.
3. What is the motive of pregnancy in you? Think and write down.
Examples:
children don't want to, but better now than 35;
the older, the more risks, yet young face.
it is necessary to keep her husband;
all friends have given birth already. Etc.
after Analyzing these three points you will be able to understand why, if it is not very deep. Often, the reason is not so obvious.
for Example, it may be that the woman doesn't want the husband's parents interfere in the upbringing of the child (they live together) and she is not pregnant. It happens that the mother's influence on a woman so powerful that she can not get out of the role of the daughter (i.e. child) ... and it blocks the possibility of conception...because children don't get pregnant.
And sometimes the reason is not in a woman: a man is not ready to take responsibility or afraid of losing freedom and other reasons, they are really a lot.
I wish all the women of the awareness and skills to listen to their true desires🙏
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