Every child needs parental love. The love of parents is the basis of his survival, he to survive to a certain age can't. Therefore, biologically inherent that as soon as the child feels the love of a parent, he feels a very strong concern.
And neglect of a child is the best way to arouse in the child a huge sense of guilt and anxiety because he does something wrong, he some not so.
since forming ANXIOUS PERSONALITY AND LOW self ESTEEM.
The infant a way to "extinguish" the unbearable anxiety is autism when a child comforts himself by rocking, took some mazes, i.e. himself lulls.
More "gentle" way to extinguish anxiety is any kind of dependency: emotional dependency (=preoccupation with relationships, MEGA the need for relationship. Growing up, for various reasons, not enough parents. When I grow up, I through a relationship trying to get back in/or rather FEEL IT AS WHAT I NEED THAT I'm NOT ALONE, I CAN SOMEONE to RELY on) ... the trendy Internet addiction. I'm not even talking about drugs, Smoking and alcohol, food addiction.
ALL the DEPENDENCIES IS a GOOD WAY to SOOTHE ANXIETY that I don't like nedolyubili, short-change attention, ignored
Any addiction IS a DISEASE of FEELINGS. When I'm insecure, anxious, I kind of feel everything, but can't agree with your feelings, I'm not used to trust them, I need some external evidence, I rely on someone else's opinion about me. Because as a child I often said, "YOU do NOT FEEL like TALKING, YOU THOUGHT... "
We were forbidden as a child to feel what we felt and we used to devalue their feelings, blame themselves for them.
We should be able to rely on yourself! A confident person relies on their feelings: "I have a right to feel that way".
it is Important to deal with their repressed feelings and experiences. Both positive and negative. Often, anxious people are depressed and those and others. There is often the feeling of boredom. And there is a feeling of lack of adrenaline. Because feelings are suppressed. To restore its sensitivity, to revive repressed feelings to life once again began to play with bright colors helps to work with a professional psychologist.the
History of anxious people I know firsthand. I was a very anxious child and I had a nickname: "the Chief panic." I will share with you a personal experience of getting rid of anxiety.
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