Триангуляция или почему в моей жизни нет мужчины.

Triangulation – this is when the Union of two included a third person. This third could be anyone, for example, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, family friend or even a pet. But, most often, this is Rodi child. In the presence of the child can calm down the scandal. Sometimes one parent or even both complain of the child to the other parent, finding in it an ally. Thus through the pronunciation of emotion from the parents reduced internal stress. And it seems that relationships in the family for some time stabiliziruemost. In such families the child is always alert, he has the illusion of control over the situation. Fearing that in his absence something terrible, where the child was, all his thoughts with his parents. When a person grows up, he has virtually no chance to establish their full-fledged families, because unconsciously he continues to be in the triangle created by the parents.

Svetlana is intelligent, educated, good-looking woman of about forty years. For more than ten years ago, her parents died. Svetlana leads a secluded life, "work – home" she never made my family and now thinking about how to change it.

somehow, on one of the trainings on development of sexuality, Svetlana "pulled" his left leg, since my foot hurts, poisoning a woman of her quiet lonely life.

At my request, Svetlana drew a picture of himself and important in her life people and injured leg.

Svetlana Herself – lightning;

Mother – pink cloud;

Papa – blue cloud;

Musical instrument (lyre) – head for business, loves music;

Three human figures – friend;

Bee a good friend.

bad leg blue ball.

- I would Say that she has a very narrow circle of friends, and she is often abrupt, because the zipper kind not called.

- the Ball is motion, energy.

- He is in disbelief, can not understand why is it needed here.

- I would Like to merge with the blue background, which has a zipper, but can't.

- If the ball disappears, the lightning can move from his seat, the worst happens.

- Cloud connect. And will cease to exist as the clouds... for some reason I remember a summer day, I'm seven years old. Mom says: "this year you go to school", and most of the tears in his eyes.

I do Not know.

- Can be that when I'm at school, it may be terrible. In another quarrel, a drunken father kills the mother.

- Indeed, anyone. If the ball will blend in with the background, lightning can move closer to her. Only then it will have to change – to become something or someone else, not a zip.

at the Bottom can be the lake, the lightning would be reflected in it. Maybe there's a land that lightning could light up, but, best of all, there was the catcher of lightning, which would have transformed her energy for peaceful purposes. Don't know whether there is such in reality.

Yes, this is a stable table that converts the energy of lightning into electricity. Flowers wanted to draw next. And bee will be the flowers to pollinate. Yes, I want to in my life was a man, the same stable as this table. But, in reality, this Converter no lightning.

Okay, I think I liked the metaphor of the table. What can I next to the table? The easiest way to say chair, but I doubt it. I need time to figure it out. Today I realized that the dead parents hold in my life much more space than real people. And I still like to retain their Union.

- this helps you a sore leg. as soon As you began to act for the development of sexuality, and therefore, the device privacy and separation from parents, the leg began to hurt.

Yes, it is. Bad leg and closeness with deceased parents - that's for sure I don't need. I want to change it.

a few days after the draw by Svetlana had a dream. Parents in this dream with love looked at each other, and together they had a wonderful time. Mom told Svetlana that she is happy, and added that her daughter got to live her life...