When the tenth time, be "fools" in a familiar situation, in a head the thought creeps in "or maybe, it's not a situation, as in me?". Starting, hoping for a favorable outcome, and then begin to suspect that all over again is going to hell, it is heading.. and it is there. Similar outcomes, incomprehensible disappointing finals or dot... And again, and eventually lost the appetite to do anything to start, because everything seems doomed in advance.
what is it? That once your subconscious was geared minor developments in a particular situation: once something went wrong, then refreshed, then, most likely, again, and mind you begin to expect the same result. Do you expect failure, and the brain remains nothing how to pave the way to the same ending, because you don't believe in the other in fact. But deep down you always hope for a favorable development of events. However, doubts alas, more. And everything is repeated over and over again.
What to do? Well, that has already managed to catch some kind of repeatability is already a big step. To stop blaming the whole world, of others, to think and to be afraid of evil fate, karma unhappy fate, and other heresies is another step. Next is to find the situation that has spun the wheel "lafortune". This process has several more steps - and often on their own to make them not just important to look the part, it is important "fresh" vision - more generalized, not tunneling, which is the habit of delaying emotions and emotional reactions in advance of the beaten track programs, draws the injury. On the "Revival" we girls any age is fine with it. Rather, they cope, I'm just a little support and help to see the "keys" that always in man.
When I release the situation that has been worrying you for months or years, the significance of these events is reduced, all set to zero and those thoughts that you woke up and showered every day, just dissolve. When released, all the pictures of events and important once of people who have hurt you, lose their brightness and become flat images. When you release it, you stop looking for the reason why it happened and why you did so, and it's all in your picture of the world turns from the living the movie in a static point. This is the release. Only then, can you want to paint new pictures that are true and pleasing, without a single touch of sadness and regret.
Remember, life can be completely different - happier, more harmonious and joyful!
sincerely, Vlad Gubanova.
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