Many of us are not satisfied in life. Someone is unhappy with the progress of his career. Someone is not satisfied with family relationships – with children or with your wife (or husband). Someone feels dependent on parents, but can not stand on an independent path. And someone relationships with parents, such that sometimes it seems that it would be better they were not... Someone is not satisfied (appearance or internal qualities). And a lot of other reasons to feel miserable, helpless or even desperate.
Probably each of us would wish to change something in your life.
But how?
Many people read intelligent books. The benefit of a huge number of them on various topics. But not everyone works in the reading that "how to".
Many are turning for help to the professionals. Ongoing psychotherapy is probably the best option. Although, as a rule, not quick and not very cheap.
But this method helps to understand the causes of their difficulties.
just realized, the person receives an important advantage of the select! Not to live with hereditary or acquired script, a haunting losing their unconscious complexes or injury. And to see these scenarios and decide: "do I want to continue?".
on the one hand, people come into therapy against their will, is already, albeit unconsciously, is ready for inner transformation. But there are many examples of very long-term therapy, do not bring tangible results. All depends on the skill of the therapist, from his personal "elaboration", the degree of injury of the client? The role of the psychologist cannot be overstated. But the expert can help to a greater extent with the analysis of causes. For the synthesis of same responsible person.
In my personal experience of self-discovery, in the experience of my clients and friends, there is an important point when there was a so-called insights. When you "suddenly" finds inspiration and fits like a puzzle over which you have labored many years.
in Addition, such insights are possible during the passage of the various transformational practices, which allows us to manifest from the unconscious repressed content. Destructive feelings of resentment, shame, guilt or fear, which were not at the time lived, and in this – its affective manifestation preventing us to evolve. Traumatic experiences, repressed once due to the inability to cope with them at the moment, and today causes us to unconsciously and compulsively play the same scenarios in life. Psychodrama, constellation, holotropic breathing, psychological games, therapy, dreaming, and other practices that allow the unconscious contents to be heard. Important (!), these practices took place under the guidance of experienced presenters who will not let go of a person in a "disassembled" state.
Transformation game – a journey into the deepest areas of our soul, our psyche. The game creates a transitional space, which, on the one hand, allows us to engage in the process, freeing your imagination and fantasy, and on the other hand, bypassing the resistance and psychic protection, through the game to reach the important hidden in the unconscious layers that are like missing pieces of a puzzle, prevented us to build his way of life.
to Paraphrase a famous expression in each transformational the game is only part of the games. Other important parts coaching and psychotherapy. In-game is important not only to help people to analyze the reasons for his problems, but also to help him find the resources to overcome these problems.
the Game is usually held in a soft and supportive and specialist atmosphere. And if you treat the game responsibly, really, wanting a qualitative change, the transformation process will be started.
a Good psychologist will act as a physician will first try the "cure" on himself, and then to offer to others.
And I want to share his feelings about participation in a transformational games. So-called inside view.
I, as always, it was interesting not only to participate in the process, but also to observe him from the side... How, having defined the query in the game and it started with hope and encouragement, you will inevitably plunge into the dark areas of his soul, and the journey is no longer encouraging and very pleasant. But it is important to continue to be in this process and to handle the tension! It is only then that you can discover important meaning... you not only understand on the surface, his consciousness, but impregnated them with all my being. There were periods of bright perceptions and periods when I admitted to yourself that you already knew deep down.
And then there was a period when I felt like I was a little off my game... started work in reality. And it seemed to me that the process I pulled back a little bit... So can occur and resistance to change – there are "objective" reasons why you have no time to participate in the game... Or so it may undergo the process of "chewing" the integration of the new installations... And more importantly the integration process to run the game and collect all the lessons learned into a unified whole.
In the game, the conditions for the transformation process. Further already all depends on the person – from his desire to change the quality of life and the willpower to make changes in life.
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