In transactional analysis, with the concept of life scenario, it is safe for patients/clients to explore the most terrible form of retribution for your scenario: suicide, murder, and madness.
the Scripts that have such outcomes, called gematicalkie (from the poetics of Aristotle "fatal error"). Holloway in 1973, called these three events of the emergency hatches. He believed that people with gematicalkie scripts reserves the right to resort to these remedies in cases of unbearable life circumstances. For people with such a scenario is typical of intentional or should I say, learned the maintenance of a stock of poor health, to maintain the accessibility of the tragic scenario even in the absence of difficult circumstances.
to put it simply, our children's part argues as follows: "If life is bad, then I can always kill yourself/kill another/to go crazy".
In this article I want to consider what aspects of suicidal behavior. In the article, Carr S. and Francis, A. (2009) "Childhood maltreatment and adult pesonality disorder symptoms in a non-clinical sample," contains an extensive literature review to prove the dependence of suicidal behavior and/or predisposition to it from difficult emotional experiences in childhood, and then emerging psychopathology in adults. Transactional analysis theoretically explains this relationship using the concept of early solutions.
This concept suggests that suicidal thoughts and actions are based on early human decisions. Suicide solution is the determining factor of suicidal personalities and can be seen as the main trigger of suicidal behavior . This may explain why one person being depressed commits suicide and the other does not.
Bob and Mary Goulding (1978) believed that every person is a child taking long-term decisions about your future life. These decisions determine how people think, feels and acts in different situations and relationships throughout his life.
the Child takes such early decisions in order to survive physically and psychologically in the environment in which he was in childhood. As the child grows, its environment gradually changes as he becomes stronger and more competent. And so in adulthood the person is strong enough and can control your life.
But often happens that NASA internal environment is not changed, and at certain moments it spills out.
so suicidal decision:
1)"If you don't change, I will kill myself"
People may threaten suicide in an attempt to force others to change. People considering suicide as a method of solving problems. The reason to act according to his decision is that he is not getting something he wants.
2)"If everything becomes too bad I will kill myself"
it is Important to know that a man with such a solution is "too bad", then it becomes clear under which conditions a possible suicide.
3)"I'll show you even if it kills me"
In this case suicide based on the position of rebellion and implies revenge.
4)"I'll make you kill me"
Such a solution is typical for volunteer soldiers. A person can provoke the opponent in cases, even domestic disputes. It happens that people with such solutions and can resist the police, then are shot to death.
5)"I will kill myself under the guise of an accident"
With this decision, people are constantly puts himself at risk to sooner or later die. These include some athletes and stuntmen.
6)"I am going to try to die to make you love me"
This solution looks like 1. The peculiarity of this group is associated with a narrow focus on trying to change the person in the direction of self-love.
7)"I will kill myself to hurt you"
Here is also quite clear that suicide is intended to cause pain to another person.
If any of you had suicidal thoughts, then write, the group to which they belonged. How to change these decisions, how to recognize the parent messages that shape these decisions, or how are these decisions and more will be revealed in future publications with your activity.
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