those who don't want to change my life,
cannot help
(Hippocrates)
the Problem faced by most psychologists is that the client does not want to change. Perhaps it's all been so persecuted that he realized that the need to do something, and even went to a psychologist for help... And even said that he was ready, that understands, let's get started... But, as practice shows, most have the expectation of "magic pill", or the desire to shift responsibility for what is happening in my life to be a psychologist. "I'm in it already appealed, so let it now and is changing my life"... And it's certainly not voiced out loud, but somewhere deep inside is meant.
I many times before had a similar setup when going to the next training and so passionately dream of how my life will change after it, I carefully study, write, perform in the process of training, get a lot some important realizations about yourself and your life. And even a couple of days or a week after a work life filled with new colors, meanings and energy. But what happens then? And then – soup with the cat... Life is addictive, the previous program are felt with even greater force, and the life goes back to old tracks... if... If not to fix, if not continue to practice.
to change yourself and your life, you need to make DAILY efforts. Let it be just only one exercise, one practice, but training in its implementation should be regularly. Without regularity, patience and diligence is hardly possible long-term results. of Course, sometimes there are insights and revelations that can very cool sober person, but even they can wipe and forget in the everyday bustle, if not put them at the core of their values and begin to regularly act in accordance with them.
Therefore, in working with the psychologist in the first place, it is important YOUR WORK, your sincere desire to take steps in a new life, to make this effort. want to change – this is the first step but it should be followed by hundreds and thousands of small steps to achieve the desired. Therefore, in the beginning, always, any specialist will ask you to formulate desired result you want to achieve. Where you need to get from point A, what B, b or G?
And if you are satisfied with your point A, and move anywhere you do not want, so it's your choice, you stay there. After all, it is your usual state, though not very comfortable, but people get used to anything, even to very exotic things.
Why it's so important:
1) Understand where I want to come – to make the vision of your new life;
2) Want these changes, and make an effort by doing regular practices that you recommends psychologist
3) to be patient, knowing that major changes need time. And that's okay!
it is Not normal to believe that for 2 hours (or 2 weeks) your life will change dramatically for the better (only in the worst that is possible)...
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