1) Install in the head "Perfect people exist."
It is not. People are not perfect, gods of the earth do not go) But everyone in it is excellent. Appreciate a great quality of every loved one and may you come to the realization that this is the same man with whom you want most to be together. For example, one of your friend is joking, the other - well knows how to listen, the third is very caring. But do not forget that relationships are work and self-development, as people are not perfect, and everyone in the trunk of their schools.
2) the Belief that you are doomed to loneliness and misunderstanding.
Yes, we are all alone on a deep existential level. This is called existential isolation - the gap between me and Others that don't go. But the usual loneliness can be overcome, and with emotional openness and love, we can overcome it.
3) Desire all at once.
I Want romance, passion, sex, understanding, but...it does not happen. And if you try - it will all end most likely a disappointment. A healthy relationship is unhurried steps, with awareness and attentiveness. br>
4) Negative beliefs Ala "all I want is sex, money, cars, something else."
Indeed, many people want, but not all. If you have a distrust of elected (chosen) just talk heart to heart and discuss the issues that are important to them, and don't be fooled.
5) All live people, not robots.
everyone has flaws, but there are such advantages that overlap them. Always remember that if a person doesn't answer for a long time, then it may then be significant circumstances. Maybe he had lost the phone and you have decided that ignore the infection. Everyone in a bad mood, to commit an error, to say nonsense, because man is not a programmed robot. Forgive others that to forgive myself constantly,)
5) Relations have little value in life.
the relationship was good, both sides should see them as valuable. If one person perceives them as an important partnership with a huge potential, and the latter as a casual acquaintance, the use of these relationships will never be released.
good Luck to all in the relationship!
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