I often began to hear the expression – testosterone man.
And more – man man. It's about one person.
the stories of the women on this man – this is a separate delight!)
All women's installation that It needs not much to compete with our ancestors for a separate pseudo-scientific theories – monkeys – then thrown aside, with it far and long!
other advantages are determined only at individual acquaintance and consequently in the overall ranking are not involved…)
On the financial side of the issue, not talking… and All so clear. This is a special watershed. True, and then it no longer is unique.
I believe that you now know exactly who testosterony man?
Are its “burden” on life, which he spent his whole life experiencing from female attention ?!
And here comes the woman and talks about a failed relationship with such a wonderful man!
the Woman is just to tell you that she's happy in the relationship, not coming to therapy.
Obviously there are big problems.
But since the beginning of her story – it's just a song! Yes, the tale of tales!
of Course, and that relationship partners have always had a honey taste!
But on the other hand, this wonderful person, very charm, it is allocated among all women, that it is “claim”!
And his hugs, kisses … well, everything else too.. it was so welcome and so happy woman's nature that many “but” she just didn't notice.
When her mind settled first fireworks of happiness from these relationships, it is clearly marked very important aspects: the man didn't notice, I was not interested ..almost…her feelings, her life…in fact, he was able to udovletvoryat their own needs. Interested in her needs, care, interest was not in his range of interests.
no matter How nice a woman relations, which was so inspiring, but this apparent “bias” became a strong influence on feelings to the beloved man.
He is like the cat that walks by itself, appears and disappears at the one he understood the laws. On the help and the attention with his hand to not count.
so went “joint” evenings and weekends all alone and with the full “parade” - he did not come, but…that at any moment could happen…
And myself, with surprise I began to notice that instead of joy, almost every day it is filled with suffering…
-I don't think I love him! Still love… she says the psychologist.
- But sometimes I think about the future…It offers nothing… at all. On the contrary – would often Express to me their dissatisfaction.
- I feel completely broken…I love him… Really! But I want also to be loved!
Not to be only sexual partner…
But in fact the woman!
And I have the impression that my testosterone a man – a kid in an adult's body!
the Kid who only remembers about their desires! As in many films of the fantastic, when the boy enters the body of an adult male.
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Notes of a psychologist on the sidelines…
Infantile adult behavior. This happens not only with a man. With women, too.
including – for the consequences that occur when man enters into a relationship with a partner!
partnership people need “close” the needs and interests of your and your partner. It – Mature.
And if not – it's a really childish attitude, childish position.
Really hard is when before you a Mature person (man or woman) that demonstrates itself as “alpha”, but in fact it turns out that the demonstration is not equal to the real adult behavior and respect.
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