the film "Tully". Recommend it to all women who want to be the perfect mother, but I feel that falls short. Well, just because it's impossible .
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Social myth of motherhood and the real life of mothers - two, I wanted to write sometimes, but write another almost always very different pictures. In society are welcomed, preferred, widely advertised, and at the same time and widely operated light aspects of motherhood - trembling/light and desirable expectation of the child, a thorough preparation for childbirth, a difficult but joyful births long-awaited, often together with her husband, happy breast feeding, cute little faces of the babies, hug mom and the kids, smile, well-dressed and coiffed mother, the Madonna, with the infant in her arms in an amazingly beautiful and clean clothes and other positive images. All this greatly affects us, the image of the mother grows inside and outside of us and we all subconsciously seek to match.
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But motherhood can be opened and the other side, the shadow of which the society is not accepted to speak: not wanted, but accidentally pregnant, tired child, I want to sleep, sleep, sleep! Don't want to see the child, and if two of them! What has become of my body after pregnancy and childbirth? Want a little dip in their interests, and that children somebody I stayed, and even better took at the time; endless washing, pumping, cooking, tired at night 5-6 times to breastfeed, etc.
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out Loud about it to not speak, and I will condemn, I will say that a bad mother. Woman and so she sometimes thinks about herself and even knows that it is not a perfect mother. So, when talking about it is impossible, when a woman is without support, in a state of extreme fatigue, her mind does not stand and then one reality may be replaced by another. Which one is real hard to understand and all can end very tragically. The mind is not rubber, and if the psychologist did not apply in time, there comes a time when you need a psychiatrist.
in short, look, friends, if anyone is interested.
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