Техника взросления мам, которые хотят полюбить своего ребенка

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unfortunately, in the practice of the psychologist is often a situation almost hopeless. Repeatedly and on our website raised this question.

"Annoys my child."

"don't love your child."

"Tired child"...

Method of work with my clients who had the same condition to a certain mental equilibrium, may give hope...

the Technique is carried out in the answers to the questions prepared in advance, and also requires the inclusion of associative thinking based on work with images.

it Should also be noted that very often, many young mothers observed emotional lability associated with frequently changing emotions.

as a basis we take, perhaps, the most destructive option: "I don't love your child!".

in order to begin to answer (note that the technique is preferable to conduct with a specialist) :

1. Who is Your child? A boy or a girl?

2. What is the name of Your child?

3. How old is your child?

4. As You realize that You don't love your child? (in other embodiments, accordingly, You understand that You are irritated by your child or that You're tired baby?)

5. How did You love for your child?

6. What means for You love?

7. Do You feel that Your child is able to learn something?

8. Would You like to love your child?

9. Why can't You give love to your child?

10. What was unexpected in the education of Your child?

11. Did You feel loved as a child?

12. How would You have behaved if felt unloved as a child?

13. Can You say with certainty how to love your child?

14. How often do You pay attention to your child?

15.Do You have physical contact with him?

16. Can You listen to him without interrupting and without stopping?

17. As can awaken and manifest Your love to the child?

the Most important thing in the technique, an impartial answer to the questions. This introspective experience will reveal many nuances of the emotional and volitional sphere of a woman experiencing negative feelings towards their child.

Love is very complicated feeling. And I must say that in some cases such a request "about". Sometimes fatigue and ( or) the aggravation of any chronic diseases (gastritis, pyelonephritis, etc.) feeling somewhat sprayed, to a certain extent brings the woman to suffer.

At the same time, the potential of love inherent in each of us. We have the ability to perceive the world, respond emotionally to it, but we little thought what love is?

Someone takes a love too strong, accompanying his speech with the phrase "to give his life for a loved one," "to jump from the roof" etc.. Someone lost in the idea of love, believing that "when he kisses, caresses, calling"... For us still, it is important to understand that true love is the ability to feel and evoke the desired creative, imaginative, beginning in our personality, inspiring new ideas, a desire to care, to understand, to feel their loved one.

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